So..... I was in a bar last night, and saw this girl. I was atraccted to her instantly as she was the most beautiful girl in the pub that night. We made eye contact a couple of time while she was dancing, and at the end of the eveing she came upto me and asked me what i was doing later. Fantatsic eh? well not quite becuase as soon as she came over to speak to me a realised that she was a very very very drunk young lady, which to be perfectly honest put me off a bit. She asked me "What are you doing later?" and i replied "just drinking my beer".
With that she walked away... No surprise there huh?
Now i'm spending the nighton my own with no girl and just the internet to keep me company.... am i an idiot for not going with this good looking young lady who i fancied from the very first moment a laid eyes on her?
2006-12-01 15:58:03 · 22 answers · asked by Robert B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She approached you, asked you what you were doing later and you spent the night on your own. Yep, you're stupid, she made all the effort to get drunk for you, to make the first move and to break the ice and you blew it. Well done, she did ALL the work as well as making it easy as hell for you and you still went home alone? Have you questioned your sexuality recently?
2006-12-01 18:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by clusp 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're an idiot. I think you did very well on letting this one pass. Most of the time we (girls) see guys taking advantage of situations like this. but my question is, Can you really have something with a girl that is too drunk to even walk straight? isn't that absolutely disgusting? wouldn't you be afraid of her puking on you any moment????
2006-12-01 16:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by missliss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was so drunk she may not have remembered going home with you or having sex with you voluntariliy.
Things happen for a reason. You probably had a lucky escape!
Think about worse case scenario before you go to sleep. bet you will be truely grateful!!
2006-12-01 16:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dude. Just because she was drunk does not mean she did not fancy you. And you need not sh*g her that night. A cuddle and stuff till she sobers up.
2006-12-01 16:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it was a very admirable thing for you to do. There's nothing worse than a guy that takes advantage of a girl because she inebriated.
2006-12-01 16:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are definatly not stupid. You'll find another girl that you fancy, but if this one was different then I think you should go to the same pub again and look to see if she is there.
2006-12-01 16:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by pinkpearl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but yes. What's wrong with a little tipsy? It's not like she's that way all the time. Besides, she may have gotten that way to work up the nerve to talk to you. Have a good night.
2006-12-01 16:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by california girl 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Definitely.
2006-12-01 16:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Serves you right for being so judgemental. What, are women not allowed to drink, just you "hard men".
2006-12-01 17:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an alternate, bizarro universe, you did go home with her and she stole your kidneys and sold them to cheap tourists for tacos.
2006-12-01 16:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Peter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋