ok this is a very long story with major complex details dont have a novel to write so ill try to cut short basically i was going out with a girl for about 3 years(i live with a family friend and his mother and daughter) his daugher is my age. we had major chemistry so i broke it off with the 3year girl and went out with the daughter for like 2 weeks i only broke up with her because 3years was trying to make me jelous. so fast forward daughter meets guy(marine) who gets married to him like a 6-12months later(21at thistime(AGE) the who time leading up to the wedding we email that we still have feelins.wedding happens i go cause im family friend at the wedding as they are walking out we lock eyes for a minute and he pulls her away causse he noticed.fastforward again they been married3years hes gone off and on to iraq and so on and she now is back at her dads again(this is like the5th time) things start up againabout lovingeachotherwebothwanteachotherbutshehas noplansfordivorewat do i do??
2006-12-01 15:57:26 · 7 answers · asked by bobo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will get yours, and so will she. If she cheats on her husband, she will cheat on you. At least have some respect for her husband who is a serviceman.
2006-12-01 15:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. Losing someone you think you care for is rough. However, if you only dated for 2 weeks, you truly have no idea who this woman is. Also, if you broke up with a lady you'd been with for 3 yrs. and went out with daughter only b/c "(3yrs.) was trying to make you jealous", then I doubt you really cared for daughter- it was more of a power play to hurt 3yrs. And finally, SHE IS MARRIED. Marriage is a sacrament from God, and if she cheats or divorces then she is an adulterer. Do you want a woman like that anyway?? Go out, play the field, and in 5 or 6 yrs., rethink settling down and then find a nice, SINGLE lady. Best of luck.
2006-12-02 14:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE SHES MARRIED! Unless they are separated and planning to divorce its not a good idea to make a huge step like that. and even then its still not a good idea to try anything till the divorce is over with bc they may decide later to stay togrther. Just make sure you think about what your doing before you do it bc its really not your life that would be screwed up, it would be her who is risking everything!
2006-12-01 16:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by baby_cakes_2758 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude what is this word EX. she moved on and got married so now its up to you to find someone else. One more thing if you where to try to get back with here one word of caution, when youre fooling with a married woman you are setting youre self up to be hurt. Think about this before you do anything, please.
2006-12-01 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID YOU SAY SHE LIKES YOU AND IS MARRIED?!?!?! Ignore it. Move on. She may not even like you. She's married, and you wouldn't want to break that kind of commitment for you own pleasure.
2006-12-01 16:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Either you are wasting your time, or you are choosing this person because you do not truly want to make a commitment (because you can't!).
2006-12-01 16:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Secret Agent of God (BWR) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say find somewhere else to live.
Stay away from her. She's taken.
2006-12-01 15:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋