i asked my bf if he would come down to visit many times and he told me no he couldnt come. I told him to let me know if that changed other wise, i would schedule myself to work that week. He never said anything. He calls me the day b4 and said he is coming down, that he will be with me but he wants to spend time with his friends that live down here too. Does this mean that the only reason he really came is b.c of his friends or did he really just want to see me?
2006-12-01 15:56:33 · 21 answers · asked by miss-ag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously friends or he wouldnt have mentioned it if he really jus wanted to see u....so he gave u a warning basically, "i'll b down there, but i'll b spendin time wit my friends so dont b mad cuz i still wanna get in your pants"....
2006-12-01 15:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you explained it, it sounds like he's just want to come down and see his " friends " and maybe if he has " time " see you. otherwise he would have came to see you when you asked him too in the first place. I could be wrong, and I hope i am. Good Luck
2006-12-01 16:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anyone here is going to answer your questions that involve your b/f's emotional state and yours. I suggest praying to GOD about that. That is what I do, pray to Jesus and He helps me, guides me and always makes me victorious. I've dealt with many women who just did not work out, but GOD brought me through. Never trust your own heart so much, it can be deceiving.
www.talkjesus.com if you wish to participate. There is a "soulmate" section there and you'll get the best sound advice.
2006-12-01 15:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by SomeoneWhoLovesJesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His # 1 reason is his friends. # 2 reason is you. You are not his priority. Lose the guy and move on or just wait till all the guys mature and grow up where they can handle a real relationship.
2006-12-01 15:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll I would look at it this way. Did he spend more time with you or his friends if the answer is his friends then darling he went down to see his friends. If he spent more time with you then he wanted to see you more
2006-12-01 15:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by xxmack675hpxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to make the best out of his trip.See as many people as he can.Friends are important too.
2006-12-01 15:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully alot of guys hate to show dependence to a girl. i was madly in love with this girl and we were togehter for a while and when she was in your position i always acted as if she was the last thing on my scheduale, when in fact she was the first and most important, i guess we just want you girls to want us more than you think we want you
2006-12-01 16:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu're a base of operations for him and a warm meal at night
2006-12-01 16:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, but if he's like the majority of guys, he probably went for his friends.
2006-12-01 15:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Josh H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you truly love someone you think to yourself...If I can't hear your heartbeat you are too far away. This is so yes?
2006-12-01 16:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋