well there is a guy that goes to my school that my friend told me that that guy like me. every one hates him but then they dont. hes a really nice guy. and i dont want any1 to know i like him. i dont even want my besties knowing. what should i do!? e-mailme at rpizel521@hotmail.com
2006-12-01 15:09:14 · 5 answers · asked by rlum0606 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In answer to your question, "No, you should not." I'm afraid that your reasons and actions are mixed enough that any relationship with him wouldn't last very long and wouldn't be very good.
I'm not sure that you really do like this guy. You "like" him but don't want anyone to know that you do? That doesn't sound like liking someone very much. Fear of your reputation among your friends doesn't matter when you choice is a good one. Are you sure that you should even try? I'd feel better about this if you'd back off and wait a while.
You will never, ever be able to keep something like this from your friends. If your friends are that important to you, then only date someone you would like your friends to know about, because they will. And if you don't want your friends to know about him, well it could be that there's something wrong with him (it happens) or with you (that happens, too) or with your friends (that happens once in a while). However, If "everyone hates him," stand back and just watch for a bit, because there could very well be a reason. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean that you must like him back.
Don't. Not this guy, not at this time. Wait--there will be others.
2006-12-01 15:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by eutychusagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should grow up a little before you start dating
2006-12-01 23:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to be cool and relax.don't see what you feel to anyone.
2006-12-01 23:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by tac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, grow up...u shouldnt care wat ur friends or other people think about the guy if u really like him....
2006-12-01 23:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything... this is a best way...
2006-12-01 23:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by jonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋