whenever they try grinding up next to me they ask if i am happy to see them but i always have a couple of packs of those lil raisin boxes in my pockets and they feel those. Should i ignore them or just give them a pack of raisins and kindly ask them to leave?
2006-12-01 15:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see if we've got this straight (no pun intended):
You like to dance at gay bars...(which means you're dancing with other guys)...and yet it pisses you off if some of them hit on you?
Sounds to me like:
1. You're about as smart as biscuit dough.
and:
2. You're about three-quarters tinkerbelle yourself.
2006-12-01 15:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the weirdest question I have ever heard. I don't dance at gay bars but if I did I would enjoy being hit on. If I were you I'd try a straight bar. If that's not possible tell them immediately you're not interested. They usually back off. I have a lot of gay friends because I'm bi so I know what unwanted come ons are like. But most guys will back off if you tell them to. If not bring a gay friend that can be more persuasive in telling them to get off of you.
2006-12-01 15:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Straight but not narrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your getting attention right? If your having fun at the bars then I guess the silly things the guys say to your come allong with it! I know it sucks but just ignore them and keep being you! Have fun! Oh and I love the idea that you carry raisins in your pocket! bye! <333
2006-12-01 15:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by danielle d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love to dance at gay bars if guys are *always* hitting on you and you hate it? What do you love about the experience which makes up for your hatred of being hit upon by gay guys who assume you're gay because you're dancing at a gay bar?
2006-12-01 15:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by amy02 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do like dancing at gay bars? You're inviting trouble if you are truly straight, and still go to gay bars. Can you blame them for assuming that you are gay? It's not their fault that you're so cute.
2006-12-01 15:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by flip4it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit putting raisins in you pockets...and if you feel uncomfortable go to a different bar....if nothing else...tell them nicely you are in a relationship and you don't want to have any contact where your mate will be jealous? just have fun
2006-12-01 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A straight guy would NOT love to dance in gay bars. It's time for you to get real with yourself!
2006-12-01 15:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey you need to check yourself out. Because if you walk like a duck ----well you are one. Or go dance at a straight club.
2006-12-01 15:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by jenni_ajaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your straight then why r u goin to gay bars?? I think u r gay, or else y would u b goin?
2006-12-01 15:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to gay bars, then you probably are. maybe you just haven't came out yet. and don't lie: you know you like it that guys hit on you
2006-12-01 15:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋