I have been dating my gf for 2 years and I love her. There is this o ther girl I am firends with and she is very hot. I like her and I think she likes me b/c she always flurts with me. What should I do?
2006-12-01 15:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by Sampson I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely agree with following your heart...but also take into consideration how strong the connection is between you and the girl you are friends with. If you feel your relationship with her could never amount to the relationship with your gf, then stay with her. Your decision is going to be tough no matter what because either way someone will get hurt. THat person can be you, your gf, or this friend. The only thing I can truly say is DO WHAT MAKES THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON HAPPY AND THAT PERSON IS YOU!!!!!!
2006-12-01 15:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by ziegler_megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it sounds like a lust thing. If you leave your girlfriend of which you have both committed 2 years of your life and go for this other girl, you might realize you made a mistake and not be able to win back the heart of your old flame. If you leave her, you're not going to miss her right off because you have someone catching your attention, but when that fire dies down you are more than likely going to wish you were back home cause you are tired of being on vacation. And then home is not going to be available cause you put the house up for sale and someone else is probably already bought it. Now...If you were unhappy in the first relationship, you need to figure out what is wrong and try to fix it before you begin a new one.Usually, just changing the person doesn't fix the problem. But if you love her like you say you do, stand by her. For two years, I'm sure she loves you and would be devastated if you left. No pressure though, lol. Good Luck.
2006-12-01 23:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your head upstairs and not down stairs first!!! This "hot" female friend of yours probably flirts with other males as well she does you. Why would you even consider dumping or cheating on your gf; who has proven that she cares for you by committing herself to you in a 1-on-1 relationship. Just think, your gf knows alot about you (good and bad) after 2yrs and still has decided to continue a relationship with you.
2006-12-01 23:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ladonnia D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u want to be wit more? a girl cuz of her looks, or a girl u knoe very well and love very much... supposely...
how would u knoe if u get wit that hot girl, u both wont last long or she'll do u wrong, while yo current gf, eventually u both can have the best time of your life, u need to confess to your girl wat's goin on, but before that if u really care bout her, stop hanging around this other girl... u're puttin yoself in a VERY bad situation
2006-12-01 23:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Zi-Shu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with girl you been with for 2 years.Because if you stayed with her that long then that really means something very special and that mean ya'll know each other very well. And by going out with some body else that probably would not work because you really dont know her personality very well like you know your gf!
2006-12-02 01:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by ms.beane4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u break up w/ur girl of 2yrs, u might just find out the grass isn't greener on the other side. U got alot of time invested, y would u want to throw it away on something that might not mean anything?
2006-12-01 23:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your girlfriend, thoughts of liking or even considering liking another girl would not exist. I think you need to think about your situation. 2 years is a long time. But that time means nothing when you're considering throwing it all away for a friend who's apparently hotter than your gf. So what if she flirts with you. Girls do that. If you loved your gf, you wouldn't even react to those flirtings. You wouldn't even think to dump her for some hott piece of ***. I think you should redefine what you think love is. I think you should be fair to your gf who you say you love and think over what it is you love about her. Apparently, looks are a strong influence for you. And teasing also. I think you need to just. think. Because no one likes to waste time, effort, and especially love. Be fair to yourself. To them. I really think you don't love your gf like you think you do. You've just proved it by thinking of another girl. Just. think.
2006-12-01 23:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by chee_poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your gf for who she is then stay with her, but don't go out with someone who you just like becuz of her looks. I mean it might end up bad. I hope you find the right one.
: )
2006-12-01 23:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay wit ur gf becuz u think the other gurl likes u but u dont know 4 shur
2006-12-01 23:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! How can you leave your girl, try to avoid the second girl and stay with you girl or you will be very unfaithful :(
2006-12-01 23:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Julia M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋