if your a Muslim are you happy the way men treat you? explain your culture. the truth please?

Answer 1

I'm a muslim
my parents are muslims
and honestly, my dad treats my mom like a queen. dont believe everything you hear because i know for a fact it isnt like that in my household neither in my other family's.

p.s. i didnt mean to sound mean or anything. im just telling you.
cheers

Answer 2

Hi there, I am a muslim... and I have been treated very well by muslim men all my life... I have a doting father who loves me and even seeks my opinion in family or work matters, two brothers who respect me a lot... and now a husband who treats me with love and compassion... seeks my advice and talks to me if he is troubled on any issue... and the best thing is all of them are religious and follow the teachings of prophet... My husband even plays childish games with me, just because I like them... just as our Prophet Mohammed(PBUH) with his wives... Most important is the wonderful feeling I get when other related men of my family talk with respect ... So, I am very very happy...
Take care.

Answer 3

I am a Shia'at Muslim. And men treat me fine. But to be honest sometimes the older men are a little rude to women but thats how they were raised...and times change..


So...To answer your question Im very happy with the way people treat me..even men.


Thanks!

Answer 4

Yes I am a Muslimah and am happy with the way men treat me since they respect me for my mind and not my body.

[4.36] And serve Allah and do not associate any thing with Him and be good to the parents and to the near of kin and the orphans and the needy and the neighbor of (your) kin and the alien neighbor, and the companion in a journey and the wayfarer and those whom your right hands possess; surely Allah does not love him who is proud, boastful;

[4.37] Those who are ********* and bid people to be ********* and hide what Allah has given them out of His grace; and We have prepared for the unbelievers a disgraceful chastisement.

[4.38] And those who spend their property (in alms) to be seen of the people and do not believe in Allah nor in the last day; and as for him whose associate is the Shaitan, an evil associate is he!

[4.176] They ask you for a decision of the law. Say: Allah gives you a decision concerning the person who has neither parents nor offspring; if a man dies (and) he has no son and he has a sister, she shall have half of what he leaves, and he shall be her heir she has no son; but if there be two (sisters), they shall have two-thirds of what he leaves; and if there are brethren, men and women, then the male shall have the like of the portion of two females; Allah makes clear to you, lest you err; and Allah knows all things.

[4.46] Of those who are Jews (there are those who) alter words from their places and say: We have heard and we disobey and: Hear, may you not be made to hear! and: Raina, distorting (the word) with their tongues and taunting about religion; and if they had said (instead): We have heard and we obey, and hearken, and unzurna it would have been better for them and more upright; but Allah has cursed them on account of their unbelief, so they do not believe but a little.

Women can own property and buildings in Islam. They can get an education. Mothers are especially honored in Islam. Women are respected for their minds and not their bodies. They can work if they want too and can keep any money they earn. They do not have to pray or fast on their periods. They can keep any possessions they owned before they got married. They do not have to contribute to the income of the household. Any money they earn they can spend as they like. They can choose and pick their husbands. They can request a marriage gift from their husband. They are responsible for the raising of the children, and taking care of the husband, children, and home. They can ask for the protection of a man on the street so they are not molested on the street. They can not leave the house or go out without their husband's permission or without the accompianent of their husband or father or male gardien. They retain custody of the children until the children are 12 years old than the children go into the husband's custody. If a husband desires more than one wife he can take up to four wives as long as he can treat them equally and justly. A son gets 2/3 inheritance and a daughter gets 1/3 inhertiance. Children are taught to honor and respect their parents and are responsible for taking care of their parents once the parents reach old age. Women are allowed in Mosques.

Answer 5

I am not muslim but i was married to a muslim since were all being truthful I will share my expereince He is shiat muslim by the way. ( probably spelled shiat wrong but you will know what i mean) I will be honest and truthful here. no lies no deciet only what i have expereince first hand. I won't bore you with the millions of things that happen to me when i was married. But when we dated he was very respectful to me I was a virgin and he was a gentleman always. showering me with gift poetry. anything i wanted to do we did. nothing was off limits i could go visit places see animals pet things you name i could wear the colour i could dance the night away. Bam fast forward married. over night everything changed. I told him before i married him will he always treat me this way he said of course. You know my mother is treated like a queen in our household you will be given the same as her and even more as you are my wife.

Anyways once i was married he wanted the hajab on me i said no he kept pushing softly but firmly as his relgion tells him to. he wanted me to convert to islam he wanted me to move back home to his country. when all these things i said no to. he changed the way he treated me. I was no longer allowed to go out as the men would look at me an dthis would cause him to get mad and blame me. i had to wear baggy clothes and cover up. I went to a party once with himm I thought OH goodie dfinally i get out of the house i was put into a room of all women and was not allowed to enter the next room with the men i felt so alone all the women spoke in there own language, I tryed to learn his language i learned the food he liked to please him i did everything i could possiblly do without changing me as a person. but he didnt' want that he wanted me to be a muslim and for me not changing he would punish me with his ways 3 weeks no talking sleeping out in my own car. Ignoring me you name it i had it done to me. I could go on and on how i was treated by this muslim man. but i think you get the idea. Now if i see a muslim man i run the other way no way in hell will i ever marry another. Let me be the last woman standing on earth. I won't go near one again. But to this day im not rude to them when there at the grocery store or what ever. two wrongs don't make a right but inside i know what there all about. I hoipe you all are happy with your husbands i just wanted to be fair and tell you my hellish life with him.

Answer 6

you have to also remember muslims comes from different cultures.. i am a canadian born muslim .. i have only known canadian culture ... so yes my culture treats women fine... my religion so far from what i have expierenced has treated me fine.

Answer 7

No problem. I get what I want, and I'm happy. So far, my dad hasn't gave me money to buy an iPod Video, so yeah, I'm unhappy with that.