Do you think that it is possible to love someone who you know, but not very well? I`m really good at reading people, but I haven`t spent a ton of time with him or anything. I can`t get him out of my thoughts. What so you think? Love or just on the rebound?
2006-12-01 14:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe. you could be in love with the idea of him...or you could truely be fallin for him, just give it some time. if you are on the rebound be careful, but get to know him start things..maybe your just good at seeing love in someone early on! :)
2006-12-01 14:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to LOVE them, but to be IN love might take some more time. Falling in love with someone takes commitment and time to really know. You can't be unsure, or just say you're good at reading people. Thinking about him all the time just shows you at least care about him a lot. But you say, or on the rebound. If you ARE on the rebound, then it's definitely not love. Could just be infatuation.
2006-12-01 22:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by chee_poo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a choice, so you can love someone anytime you choose to. The real question is, will it last? If you are under 27, probably not, so don't get pregnant until it's the real thing and you're at least 27. Love takes a choice on both sides. You cannot control another person's Free Will. If you are young, work on school and your writing skills. Get a college degree or something that relates to your natural talents. Be the best you you can be. Let God be your matchmaker and let the guy pick YOU out!
Meanwhile, use your desire to love and be loved to learn all about He who loved you before you were born... You might be mistaking SPIRITUAL hunger for God's love and truth for romantic hunger.
Like sometimes people can think they are hungry for food and really they are just thirsty...
2006-12-01 22:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by MandaPanda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as "Love at first sight". There is "Lust at first sight" which is probably what you are feeling. There have been a few people in the world that ended up getting married and living happily ever after, but verrrrrry few. There is nothing wrong with falling in "lust" with someone, but you should take a realistic step backward and just get to know him before you jump into anything.
2006-12-01 22:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YESS!!!!!! i do believe in love at first sight as that is how i got into the relationship i am in now and we have been together for 6 years and have a beautiful baby boy that is now 18 months old and was pregnant again but anfortunately i had a miscarriage with the last one so we will be trying again so but if i hadn't gone with my feelings then i wouldn't have my fiance now and our gorgeous little boy so yes i do believe in love at first sight and i believe that if you don't follow you heart and feeling then you could regret it for ever.
2006-12-01 22:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I met here on answers and got to know a little bit about each other through IM. When we met we both fell in love - me at first sight and him about 6 hours later. We knew that first day that we were meant to be together.
We just married today. I can't explain it, we just knew it was meant to be and did it. Sometimes you can just feel the connection as soon as you meet.
2006-12-01 22:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love at first sight is usually two sided. Yes, I believe in it.
2006-12-01 22:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where is your feelings in your thoughts or your heart?
If your heart feels something, your in love, if just thinking and no feelings, not in love
2006-12-01 22:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Faith Walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do but I still think you should know the person for 1 year.
2006-12-01 22:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by day_v1990 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i thing its love at first sight
2006-12-01 22:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋