My boyfriend broke up with me today, and I feel absolutely awful. He told me that he really does love me, but that he can't see me anymore because I went out with both of his best friends, and it "doesn't feel right" to him. I was just in bed with him two days before! His friends don't care, and neither do I, and he was sort of smiling while he was saying all of this. Does anyone know what he really means or if you could try to explain this all to be would be really great. Thank you
2006-12-01 14:14:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO I did not cheat on him I mean I went out with them before and I were together and I didn't sleep with either of the two before.
2006-12-01 14:27:01 · update #1
he was thinking of you, that's for sure
2006-12-01 14:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Martin T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you stopped to consider that he told you this AFTER you were in bed with him? Apparently it didn't cross his mind beforehand... or is it just a handy excuse? (the latter of course).
Can I give you a suggestion? Slow down on the dating and choose carefully.... And when you do... take things very slow. Show respect for yourself and you will command it from others. You now have three guys who are friends and you have been with all of them. They've got quite the ingredients for great conversation when they're together. Stay away from all three of them and take things slower.
2006-12-01 22:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the whole situation but he seems like a bad boyfriend. He claims to love you and he breaks up. You went out with his two friends. I don't understand as to why you would do that. I don't know if you are kinky or he was setting you up in a sick, twisted game. I don't like the whole thing. I think you should forget about him. You need to make better choices about who you should date. He seems shady.
2006-12-01 22:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by zanada1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I can really answer your question, but I can relate. I was dating a guy and one day he just broke up with me. He said that he really liked me, but he just got into a fight with his dad and couldn't handle it, and he deals better with these things on his own, and he didn't want me to feel neglected. He said maybe after it was all over we could go back out. I found out later that he was mad that my parents "asked to many questions" and that he didn't like me anymore. So, my guess is he didn't know how to tell you that he didn't like you anymore. I really don't know, I'm just speaking from prior experience. Talk to his friends, have them talk to him, then have them come back to you with some advice. I wish you the best of luck! Sorry I wasn't much help:(
2006-12-01 22:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah DeBouter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll give it a try but whoever knows what's going on inside any guy's mind. He is in an awkward position what with your having gone out with 2 of his friends. Maybe he is testing you! or maybe he feels you cannot be trusted to be a true gf.
2006-12-01 22:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guess is that he feels you are easy. He's not sure what you did with his friends when you went out with them. The thought of his friends knowing what he has, and having tasted/tested it is rather repulsive to him.
2006-12-01 22:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he said went out with his friends what does he mean? did you have sex with them? If you did ,did he already know about it? because if he did ,maybe thats all he wanted also.Are you trying to find Love with sex?
2006-12-01 22:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he was just trying to thing of a reason to break up with you leave him alone pretend it does not bother you and move on with your life if he cares you will no if not who cares he ain't worth it
2006-12-01 22:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that for sure maybe you didnt give him the best sex he wanted if it was that reason he wouldnt be in relationship with u in the first place.
2006-12-01 22:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Gary 69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't help you if I can't be frank with you & give you my honest, sincere answer. But then again, you might get offended, so I rather not say at all.
2006-12-01 22:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just leave him and find urself a great guy. many are out there. many. and some are still single. like me hahahaha.
2006-12-01 22:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋