He cares about me a lot, loves being with me, is there when I need him (well most of the time). But he does not want to be in a relationship. Fear of commitment? Or is it me?
2006-12-01 14:08:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, we have slept together. he tells me i am the most beautiful woman in the world. we have never just been friends....
2006-12-01 14:12:01 · update #1
He may not like you "in that way", but in every other way. He could be gay too.
2006-12-01 14:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Justcurious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It not either of the two choices you gave. The timing is not right for him and he knows that. There may be things going in his life that you do not know about. He sounds like he loves you in a special way and it is all he can give you at this time. Talk to him about what is going on in his life and talk to him about your feelings. He is suppose to be your friend talk to him about all this. Not enough people are willing to talk to the person they like, love and or care about. They all ask strangers instead of the only person who can really answer the question.
2006-12-01 14:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand, that maybe he really does care about you, but as a friend. People mock this statement, but there are differences in affection. In the Greek language there are three words for "Love" we use only one in English to describe many meanings. It's confusing for us as well. In the long haul relationship, mairrage, a friendship love is neccessary as well as an intimate love. Your final love is your bestfriend. Without this relationship it will fail. However, if the initial "intimate love is never there" you'll set yourself up for failure as well. You are probably more attached than him because women respond mostly to emotional security.(Which he offers)
2006-12-01 14:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by dizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fear of commitment.
2006-12-01 14:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just want to be friends. Accept it because good friends are hard to find. But never put yourself off on him. It's not you, it's him. He just doesn't want a romantic relationship with you. You need to respect his decision and move on.
2006-12-01 14:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it people use that "fear" thing? Maybe he just doesn't want a commitment. If he's good to you, and it's good with you - why can't you just be happy with what you have with him?
2006-12-01 14:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like fear of commitment or fear of change.
2006-12-01 14:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many different types of relationships we can have. Evidently this guy doesn't want to take it farther. So why worry about it? Just move on.
2006-12-01 14:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is saying he can't handle the pressure of it. Being in a relationship is very stressfull but it is worth it if your with the right person
2006-12-01 14:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's either gay, already in a committed relationship or he has been hurt before and is afraid he will be hurt again.
2006-12-01 14:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's just like me, i have a friend (girl) that i care about but i don't wanna be in a relationship with. i just wanna be good friends and so is he probably
2006-12-01 14:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by Structure 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋