welll he said he is mad at me 4 writing him notes and one was asking him out and anouther one was about how an un insinsitive he is. and im sad cause i ruined our freindship! what should i do ?? plwease help??
2006-12-01 13:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hrm, well asking a guy out and THEN telling him he was insensitive he is was not a smart choice. If he didn't like you and he turned you down for the date, he was probably hoping you could still be friends. To him, he was trying to be nice and you calling him insensitive was like a smack in the face to him. He was trying to be nice and you rejected him.
The best thing you can do is apologize for both of the letters and mention how it was insensitive of you. An apology is often the best solution to problems, yet people often hate to give them. Also, give him some space after apologizing and I wouldn't say anything bad about him for awhile.
2006-12-01 14:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by wise_sage 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh god I h8 2 hear about girls like you. Two words
STOP IT!!!!!
Leave him alone and get a life! You are causing your own problems. Don't bother with guys you are "friends" with who have no interest in you. Your just making an *** of yourself.
Listen When we women put guys on a just friends list it is because we are not attracted to them and they are attracted to us. Guess what same goes for guys. But the bad part is men don't give a **** about your feelings and wont let you down easy.
He's not mad at you. He thinks your a loser. I know it sucks to hear but better to hear it from me than from him. Now you go a heads up act interested in other ppl and at least you will save face. Harsh but true.
2006-12-01 22:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you liked him. You were friends and you wanted to excalate?? and He did not??
Hey, you took a chance and he wasn't into it.. let it go.. you don't have to hate him or be ugly about it... just pick yourself up and get on with life.. If he was a true friend he will be back as a friend after he sees you are o.k. again.
- yea, it sucks.
2006-12-01 22:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by gjm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only men who are losers act that way. And I mean Losers with a capital L. Normal men simply don't act that way. He's giving you valuable information about himself....he's not normal. Something is wrong with him.
2006-12-01 22:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes "over-doing" it can turn someone off, too. Just stop the note-writing and try to be yourself. Be friendly, but don't over-do it
2006-12-01 22:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy sounds like my husband and my husband is an idiot if you show you are not happy with something he gets mad.well say what i say i dint care and really mean it some men are babies dint let it bother you because if you do they will drive you crazy !
2006-12-01 22:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him right now yes for one last chance
2006-12-01 22:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by justmejimw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, trying talking to him or run West.
2006-12-01 22:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come live with me you will be happy
2006-12-01 22:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by unnoneuser 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
best way to get over someone is to get under someone
2006-12-01 22:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by mrbait33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋