i have a girlfriend when ever i ask her for sex she push me she became angry with me. i realy love her and i now she loves me too.when ever we become alone her face coloure becomes red.i am worrried about my love how can i make her ready to do sex i cant live without her.she only kiss me she want nothing more please peaple tell me now what i have to do...........please i am serious about this matter
2006-12-01 13:55:36 · 16 answers · asked by sanir k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever she is ready for it, you will know. Don´t push her.
2006-12-01 14:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not told us whether you have already had sex with her. Let us assume you have, then you should not need to ask her for sex. Learn to get her to relax when you are alone together, learn about the female body language. There is a 5 step method of getting a women into bed.
Step one is the holding of hands, she should hold yours.
Step two is the kiss, her face, her eyes, her mouth, will all be giving signals
Step three massage her back when in an embrace, if she is relaxed her arms will raise allowing you to move your hands to the front. If you feel resistance then she is not ready for the next step.
Step four, this is where you tease her and watch and listen to her. Gently massage all around and gradually get closer, she will not being showing no signs of resistance.
Step five, she is now ready for you, be a gentleman, this means the lady comes first, always.
Those steps will work in 99% of all cases, trust me
If you have not had sex yet then again never ask and go very slow and she will yield. Do not become a Wham Bang Thank You Maam, make it special for her.
2006-12-01 18:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by expert_dating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont think you can make anyone ready for sex, they will be ready in their own time don't pressurise her you could end up losing her that way.
Just tell her that you care about her and want to take the relationship to the next level, explain how you are feeling, but at the end of the day if you are her first it is to some girls a very special moment in their lives.
She may be embaressed and need reassurance. Be patient and if you really love her when the time is right it will be even more special, just make sure it is that way for her and remember there is no rush.
2006-12-01 14:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to make her do something she does not want to do right now-you are forcing her, or pushing her into doing something only YOU want to do...for YOUR own satisfaction-so she is backing off away from you and is not comfortable at all. Give the lady some time, give her some space.....don't force the issue, or MAKE HER READY TO DO SEX, only she will know when she is ready...as SUNSHINE has said, "NO means NO". Please be serious about this as well;;to force someone to have sex with you is called RAPE-i hope you know this, and will act accordingly.
2006-12-02 23:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your problem, if she doesn't want to have sex then she shouldn't, you should learn to be a bit more tolerant, she will come to you when she feels ready, by the way you failed to mention how old she is, is she only young, has she had previous bad relationships, all this matters hun, maybe you could have an informal chat with her.you should be flattered she is not being easy and saving herself.
2006-12-01 14:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Hunny Bun... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate i think she is incure and maybe she has had been in relationships in the past which have not gone to well for her. Also she might feel unconfortable with her body. Just take it gratually and let her develop her feelings for you and hopefully it will all work out for the both of you. Good luck.
2006-12-01 14:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you disused the issues of having sex with your gf, maybe you need to sit down and ask her, she may be shy, scared, she may not be ready to have sex yet.........so don't pressure her, talk to her, and let her come around in her own time, just be happy in your relationship and that she loves you and you love her. so good luck and god bless.
2006-12-01 18:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sunshine is right. no does mean no. The fact that she gets angry and pushes you away means she's not interested in having sex with you so move on already.
2006-12-01 14:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Miz Enriques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with her and don't push things. Your relationship will take it's course. Perhaps you are too young . Good luck !
2006-12-01 14:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard, women like what they can have so if you stop trying, she will want you even more.
Try rejecting her advances from time to time, that will drive her wild with passion.
And whenever you agree to do it, do it reluctantly.
2006-12-01 21:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by lolita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋