Well, we have a past. After a longterm relationship he was what you can call my "rebound"guy He is very nice, and really hot in bed, but there's nothing more between us. This happened just a couple of times, before my bestfriend met him. She asked me if she could hook up with him, because she really liked him, and since I didn't have any feelings for him, and was kind of flirting with someone else it was okey. This is over a year ago, and I've been living out off town, but it has been kind of weird between us(him and I) sometimes when I home.
And soon I will move home, and it's possible I'll have to leave with them for a while... Can't say I'm looking forward to it...What if HE gets tempted to do anything? Should I tell my friend? She knows we have a past, and she is already quite jealous, and I would never do anything like that. How shall I cope with living with an "ex-lover" and his girlfriend who is my bestfriend?
2006-12-01 13:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by eira_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not interested in him, and I don't think he wants to destroy things with my friend. But we both knows that we do the thing in bed really good, and sometimes, you do get tempted, even if you don't want to.
2006-12-01 13:53:13 · update #1
theres no fun way to cope with it....just stay in the guest room, don't wear skimpy pj's and don't flirt with him. it's sista b4 the mista so if he makes a pass at you you should totally tell her. and she needs to know she can't be jealous anymore because whhats in the past is IN THE PAST!
~slacker
2006-12-01 13:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all 3 you need to set boundries never ever allow the 2 of you to be home alone together and follow it set the guidelines reasonable it will be hard but you will make it also find you a guy and stay focused on him im not saying have a sexual relationship unless it leads up to that but anything to keep you focused away from her man.
2006-12-01 21:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best answer is don't. why put yourself into a position you know you don't want to be in? just try to find somewhere else to stay. or if he's gonna be in the house alone with you then you should just leave the house. make sure ur not alone with him. so your friend won't have to be jealous or paranoid. let her know you're going to respect her like that.
2006-12-01 21:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b honest. in the end she's gonna find out, and it will b better if she finds out rt away. otherwise it makes everything worse
2006-12-01 21:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she really likes him and tell her she has to pick. you or him...
2006-12-01 21:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by pinky5063 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, when i first saw your question, i thought you were going to say my best friends boyfriend, and i ...................had a 3some!!!!!
2006-12-01 21:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome
2006-12-01 21:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋