Guys, if your lady slept in the bed w/another man but did not?

Question

I told him that I slept in the bed with another man when we were going through some things. I honestly did not do anything but sleep, but he has been a little different since that time.Of all the times that I did do more than that, I did not tell him, but now I think that it is putting a wedge. Would you be angry if your lady slept in the bed with a guy (a straight guy) but she did not do anything?

Answer 1

Um, yeah, right -- you were "going through some things," you slept in a bed with another man, and NOTHING HAPPENED.

Sure. Uh-huh. Ok.

And a frog doesn't bump his butt when he jumps, either...:)

*Of course* he doesn't believe you. And why should he -- you admitted here that there were times you "did more than that" you aren't telling him about, right?

Yes, I wouldn't like it if my wife slept in a bed with another man. And I completely trust her. But people who are committed to someone don't sleep in beds with other people -- there's too much "temptation" if nothing else.

Answer 2

Think about it, would you believe it 100% if your guy slept in the bed with another woman, that they didn't get up to something?

Your guy might want to believe you, but it is hard...

So it all comes down to whether you have always been honest with him and that is how he sees you. You gotta prove your character.

Answer 3

Yes, I would. It shows character. You said you didn't do anything, which I find hard to believe, but you also admitted that you did other things before. Again, it shows your character.

Answer 4

If my boyfriend slept in another giirl 's bed, I would be heatbroken. I'm sure that's exactly how YOUR boyfriend feels right now.

Answer 5

well, to try and understand his situation, try putting yourself in his shoes. would you believe him?

Answer 6

yea