2006-12-01 13:26:30 · 18 answers · asked by BabyGirl Emily. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh man. Wrong wrong wrong and WRONG. Okay, first, don't have sex. Second, if you do, wear protection or INSIST that he wear protection. Do either of those BEFORE anything.
Now, on to your question:
While the art of sex is subjective (meaning that whats good for one person may not be good for another), there are a few general rules that can make the difference between cold pizza is good sex and I'm dizzy and need a smoke sex. First of all, be attentive and open minded. This is done during foreplay. If the guy wants to just go straight into sex, then he is probably a newbie. Don't think that going straight into sex is the best thing, he could just be nervous or anxious. If you show him some really good foreplay, he'll appriciate it, and it will generally make the experience much better. Take time to explore his body, and let him explore yours. If he focuses on one particular area more than another, or his face is reading that he really wants to touch or caress one part of your body, let him. Just as long as its within your comfort zone and not abusive. What is within your comfort zone and being open minded can conflict sometimes, it happens, you can dwell or you can move on. Don't be shy about touching his body, and don't be shy about letting him touch yours. Be soft during soft time, and be rough during rough time, when doing oral, less can be more . . . and don't use teeth. Again, thats subjectional too . . .
Once your body tells you that you are ready, then let the act start. If you start too soon, then its going to be harder and more frustrating for the guy to "get in". Remember, guys don't need foreplay but you do, how you do it will make all the difference. After that, hope that he has the staying power to finish when you do.
2006-12-01 13:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Voice of Reason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask a person that can tell you what is age appropriate. If you are not having sex then you need to stop worrying about it. Have you been in a vacuum for your entire life. They show so much on tv and in movies how would you not know at least something. Get advice from a trusted adult and buy a book. Go to the library and look at What you always wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. it's old but clear with diagrams and honest. Just remember Aids wasn't an issue than, as now so that needs to be taken into consideration.. No sex is safe. Only safer. So, good luck.
2006-12-01 21:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like in the first answer there really is no set way about it and really no way to explain how to do it. But if you are that curious about it, go to your local health department and ask them to explain to you about sex. They specialize in that type of thing. Good luck to you and hope this helps.
2006-12-01 21:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Não entendi a pergunta e estou aqui por causa da manutenção no sistema do Y!Respostas.
2006-12-01 21:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Papori_Ctba 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack and Jill went up the hill to have a little fun stupid Jill forgot her pill and now they have a son.
2006-12-01 21:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by One Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him give you mushroom slaps.
Don't worry you'll love it.
A little fore play
and then cha ching buta bing
and then you go again
and if you want you can go all night.
it's great! I Love it!
2006-12-01 21:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy to stick it in
u can be on top or bottom witch ever pleases u the most
2006-12-01 21:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by pissed offffffffff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know HOW OLD ARE U! am in middle school I know am not going to tell collge!
2006-12-01 21:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do i explain this!! It's where a guy puts his dick un ur pussy! Anything else ???
2006-12-01 21:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time right it will happen. then it feel real GOOD!
2006-12-01 21:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by SweetRedz05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋