girls help me please?

Question

i known this boy for a while and we became real good friend the kind that are always together, calling each other, hugging all of that. well now i dont see him that much so i want to get over him how do i do that

Answer 1

I can relate exactly to what you are saying. i went through the same thing. Even though you don't see him often, it won't be easy to get over him, like any good friend. You could just try being his friends, even if you don't see each other often, it doesn't mean you have to lose eachother.

Answer 2

One thing that you could do is try and find a new guy for your life. One time, I was hopelessly in love with this guy, even thought he didn't feel the same way about me and we could never be together. A couple days later I went to a ski camp in the mountains and met a ton of great guys that I had never known before. Seeing that there were other great guys out there for me helped me realize that the guy I used to like wasn't the only guy that could make me happy. If you want to get over a guy, surround yourself with new guys and you will see that there are other people that you can be happy with too.

Answer 3

try not to think about him...find something to keep u busy..don't sit/lay there daydreaming about him and what u could b doing together....find a hobby or just hang out w/ someone else..its not the end of the world...but you probably shouldh't get into serious relationship if u r 2 young....and if a guy is not serious..not get involved w/ him in the 1st place....just don't think about him ...4get him!!!

Answer 4

take the time you need to chill out for a while. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site

Answer 5

Just do it!! or contact him so you two can get together and be together. I'm missing the problem?

Answer 6

Try dating someone.... go out and have a good time!!

Answer 7

get involved with something else or watch Dr. Phil.

Answer 8

Just find someone better than him. And youre done.

Answer 9

try these steps [:

1. Cut off all communication with your ex. Harsh, but honestly it's the only thing that works. You probably feel like you're losing the best friend you ever had. The only person who truly understood you. But you cannot be friends while you attempt to get over each other. You don't need to have a first-row seat while you watch them get over you, or god-forbid start dating again, while you fall more and more in love with them and cry yourself to sleep every night.
2. Realize that just because this relationship is over, it doesn't mean that you'll never find love again. Ask your friends, your parents, your great-aunt Susan how they got over their first loves. Many people will remember how hard it was to get over their first love, but admit that they found greater loves in their lifetime.
3. Cry on your best friends' shoulders - this is what they are there for. If you don't have best friends, go out and make some and build strong friendships, or rekindle the friendships that died while you spent every waking hour spooning your first love (Be sure to apologize for ditching you for a boyfriend or girlfriend; if they love you, they will understand). You really can't get through this alone. Your best friends will stay up late with you while you pathetically whimper things like "But s/he is the love of my life! I'll die without him/her!" and be patient as they talk some sense into you. They will drag you out of the apartment on a party night when you would rather listen to Cold play and cry in bed.
4. You love your best friends, so be considerate of them. While they are trying their best to remain patient with you, you will exhaust them if you are super-glued in your throne of self-pity and despair. Act like the peppy friend they once loved once in a while, so they think you are making progress and are motivated to help you heal all the way.
5. In retrospect, you will probably only remember what you love about your ex, and your happiest memories together. Recall why you broke up, what you hated about him/her, and what you could never agree on. If they cheated on you, stop justifying it and realize you can find someone who loves you and would never be unfaithful.
6. Use your breakup as an impetus to become the person you have always wanted to be. Take on a daunting goal such as learning a new language, instrument, or skill. Or promise yourself to ace your classes. There has never been a better time to set these goals in motion, and now you have all the free time to do it!
7. Do not hook up with your ex. You will start right back at square one and all the work you did trying to get over them will be wasted. You will also piss off your friends who have been trying so hard to help you get over your ex. I have a feeling this can only be learned from experience, so it's your mistake to make. But don't say I didn't warn you.
8. Resist the urge to have a rebound. There is nothing as tacky from jumping from relationship to relationship as a leech jumps from host to host. Although you may think you truly like another person soon after your first love, most likely you are just subconsciously afraid of being alone. Give yourself time to heal and grow as a person before committing to another relationship. Getting intimate with your rebound is bound to disgust you in the morning, especially while you're trying to get over your first love. Just don't go there. Although, again, it's your mistake to make.
9. Buy a break-up book (just one) that won't look too pathetic on your bookshelf. Bad, tacky choices would be anything along the lines of "You, Too, Can Love Again" "Mantras for the Co-Dependent Woman" "Don't Jump! Life is worth living without him/her." These books will probably make you feel worse. "It's Called a Break-Up Because it's Broken" is a good choice. Read it when you feel like crap and are lonely out of your mind, to give your friends a break from your moping. Maybe you can snap yourself out of it sometimes.
10. Cry yourself to sleep if you must, and load up your iPod with the saddest love songs you can think of. Emo, angst relationship songs work wonders because you realize there are actually people out there more miserable than you. Music will heal you, just give it time.
11. Do anything you can to make yourself feel sexy and desirable. Get a haircut or highlights. Go to the gym. Buy a new outfit. Dress up and dance in front of your mirror to club music. Remember all the times s/he told you that you are the most beautiful creature in the universe, convince yourself that is indeed true, and that someone else will appreciate you the way s/he once did.
12. Endure the pain and loneliness bravely...with time, the pain will subside although you sure as heck don't believe that right now. Are you a strong person or a weak one that will wither from one failed relationship? Don't succumb to weakness. Retain your pride and hold your head up. There's nothing sexier than that.
13. Try to avoid friends who are very close with your ex, or common friends, they are bound to talk about them and bring you down inadvertently. Listen to Bryan Adams "Cuts like a knife", over and over again.

Answer 10

girl... we both have the same problems...
and i know its very hard to forget him.. right?
especially when you see him almost everyday..
.. just be strong..