My boyfriend hasn't talked to me since Sunday night. My friends say that I should just give it time and he will talk to me, but I wanna know what other people think since my friends are probably just making me feel better and keep my spirits up. So tell me what you think. I don't know if you would call it much of a quarrel, but when he stopped talking to me I was over at a friend's house and saw her baby and I sent him a message saying "Omg I want a baby ". He came back with " Well you aren't getting one from me soon ". And I sent him back " With the way you have been acting lately I don't think I am getting one from you ever " . And therefor he has stopped talking to me. And I have called him to see how he is doing and he doesn't pick up or call me back and I have apologized for what I said.
2006-12-01 12:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer the repeating question about age the answer is 20. And I have gone without talking to him for like 3 days, it doesn't seem to make am affect
2006-12-01 13:03:28 · update #1
I can't go without talking to him long cause it drives me nuts. This is someone I am used to talking to all day every day for over a year now.
2006-12-01 13:06:49 · update #2
im sorry but i think it's over. You should try going to his house or something and figure things out :D
2006-12-01 13:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God your BF has some common sense. Why would you say something like that even if you were just joking?...Having a baby is big responsibility and isn't to be taken lightly. He obviously isn't ready or willing to be a father yet which shows he is a lot more mature than you are. All babies are cute but they are NOT toys or a fashion accessory to just get for the fun of it. I think your BF made the right decision and walked away from what could have turned out to be a very bad situation. I hope that you move on and think carefully about what happened. Please think how drastically your life by having a baby when you or your partner is not ready for it. I hope this has been a good life lesson for you. you sound very sweet and caring but not ready to be a mommy yet. Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-01 13:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are afraid of babies, so what you have don eis frighten him and then offend him by basically saying that im not going tobe you for much longer.
What you need to do is msg him and say you were joking around on Sunday and tell him you want to meet up and go out somewhere.
He will be relieved that you werent serious and msg you back!
2006-12-01 13:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should'nt of said you no what you said. You should of refrased it like saying i want a baby some day or later on in our past. Try emailing him and you know if he doesnt email back give it sometime. And maybe something good will happen and maybe you wil have a baby someday with him.
Good Luck and GOD bless you and your boyfriend!
2006-12-01 13:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! You both were pretty harsh to one another. If I was you I would call hima and tell him that you were sorry and that he should be too. The way I took it was that you were just saying in genral you wanted a baby. He shouldn't have gotten so worked up. I hope you to work it out! good luck!
2006-12-01 13:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by To sweet for 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ...talking bout a baby....this probably scared him off. i dont know what to tell you. how old are you cuz that means alot in this situation. i would just give it time cuz if you keep calling hes gonna thinks he still has you but if you dont call he will get jealious.
2006-12-01 13:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by nikki12022000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, someone just asked this very same question.
Apparantely he's very hurt by your remark. All you can do is give him some time. But be prepared for his lack of response.
2006-12-01 13:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a call. Ask if he is ok? Just one call doesn't hurt. Good luck.
2006-12-01 12:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have hit his ego...or maybe he is worried of responsibility and don wan you to pester him for ababy.
2006-12-01 12:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD R U??? AND I WOULD JUST SAY IT TO HIM IN HIS FACE AND NOT IN MESSAGES
2006-12-01 13:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by hot_devil_right_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋