I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now, and I feel like he is going off me. I've tried making a real effort, making sure my hair and make-up is done perfectly when he comes over, dressing up to go out with him, giving him space when he seems to need it, being there to listen to him when he wants to talk.
On the one hand, he suggested to me that he would like us to move into a flat together, but on the other hand, recently he has said that he will come see me, but doesn't.
It doesn't help that I've just started a new job, and am working almost opposite hours to him.
I'm just kind of scared that he is going off me...
2006-12-01 12:55:41 · 12 answers · asked by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the sounds of it, this guy is very lucky to have someone that's cares for him in such a great way.
I really would not worry to much about it, I think that it is a new relationship, and there probably still a lot for you two to learn about each other, which will happen in due course, and with that you will learn his little ways and hopefully he will realise that you are a gem, that needs to be treasured.
If it doesn't happen, more fool him! You are doing everything to accommodate his feelings and your also showing him that you care for him.
I wish you all the very best,
take care, good luck,
love n light xx x
2006-12-02 02:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making such a big effort. If he doesn't appreciate you and the hard work that you are putting into your relationship to keep each other together, why should you bother with him so much?
At the end of the day, he is a man. And at some time or another all men are basically D*ckheads. It sounds to me he is being a d*ckhead right now and doesn't deserve you.
Don't waste your time chasing after him.... he should be chasing after you..... leave him and let someone else give chase!
2006-12-02 00:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he is messing you about and maybe has another girlfriend. If thats the case then thats fate and it just wasnt meant to happen. Good luck :)
2006-12-01 23:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No time for him well by by
2006-12-01 21:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wry, maybe you should talk to him about this, but otherwise, it mite be one of those times where both of you are just going seperate paths but will meet in the middle and come back together
2006-12-01 20:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as fate may have it it does seem that way. ive been thru something like that, it may be time to consider moving on. sorry.
2006-12-01 20:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you stress out the more stress you put between you and him, try and not worry, love him for him and stay confindent and happy
2006-12-01 21:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid that it sounds like he has a new girl friend and he can;t find a way to tell you
2006-12-01 21:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better... if he doens't give that much effort in improving your relationship then he is not worth it............ You really deserve better
2006-12-01 21:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre trying too hard to "please your man".
Relationships are about partnerships. Relax, and enjoy your life.
2006-12-01 21:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋