ok, there is this guy, lets call him josh, so i like him but i might only like him because i think he likes me because he is always looking at me and when our eyes meet he looks away, so thats why, but he is in 6th grade and im in 8th . ok i have this class at my school called advisory and its 25 min long, and i have it mon.-thurs. & thats the only time i see him, but we never talk, we have said mabey 30 words total to each other and it wasnt a convo, but i like him, how do i get him to know i like him and to ask me out?
2006-12-01 12:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This might not be the answer you want to read...
Just become friends with him... if it develops into something more as time goes on great, terrific! You'll have a solid foundation to begin a relationship that will be so sweet. I promise you. I've done this a few times and have wonderful friends and now an awesome husband who I had a crush on in school.
If it doesn't result in dating what did you lose... nothing really, you will still have a friend who you admire and he'll have a cool friend who will be there for him (but who won't put her life on hold for him.)
Plus you are older and it's well known girls mature faster than boys so the age difference is huge now! Do you want that?
I don't think you have to let him know you like him...he probably has a good idea but is too young to know what to do...he's intimidated by you the 8th grader.
Just start a conversation about class or some other neutral topic... after a few weeks of this and it feels pretty good to you ask him if he would like to join you and some (good, nonjudgmental) friends of yours to go skating or boarding or bowling or some activity like that. From there you could move on to a theatre movie or have a dvd night with friends. Get to know him, let him get to know you. Don't put so much pressure on yourself or him... make it fun, relaxed and friendly.
Just seems like there some weird tension going on... too many questions in both your heads.
Lastly, (I know it's cliche) be yourself and encourage him to be himself... so much time & energy is wasted with those games.
2006-12-02 07:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 11 and ur 13 that's ok but the 8thgraders r going to harass u!! Wait till he's a freshman and ur a junior and keep being friends with him till then
2006-12-01 20:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with him, maybe talk to him online and from there..maybe phone and in the class, sit next to him and talk and start out as friends first
2006-12-01 20:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez ur young to be dating. . .but if you insist, wait for the opportune moment and ask. . .I have a feeling he won't be asking you out first.
2006-12-01 20:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him & see what happens.
2006-12-01 20:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by T <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋