2006-12-01 12:43:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have.. and i feel awful about it. i cried my heart out when he found out through my best friend. i guess god punished me for cheating by having my best friend telling on me. he still says he would have forgave me if i confessed. while confessing to cheating can be scary and painful for your partner to hear, it is their right to know what has been going on in their relationship with you. ur cheating is called cheating because you did it while in a relationship you and another person agreed to stay committed to. by not letting your partner know what you did, you are making him an outsider in the relationship and are choosing to have this relationship by yourself. A relationship is about open, honest and direct communication, as well as trust, patience, understanding and respect.
There is no easy way to confess to cheating, you just need to build the courage and put it out all on the table. Your partner will react in shock, anger and pain and you will need to have the patience while he or she goes through that emotional process and you should try to rush anything. When your partner seems calmer and ready to listen, just be honest about how it happened and why, and to also express your understanding that no reason justifies your actions, but it will help you both understand where things got lost in the relationship. You will need to cooperate with your partner and do whatever it takes to prove that you can be trusted and will not cheat again. Together you will be able to move slowly past this and rebuild a relationship that is stronger than ever with even more trust than it had to begin with.
2006-12-03 14:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by sara_s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never. And i have never been cheated on. I guess i am a good girlfriend. Also only 2 of my relationships broke up with me. I have broken up with countless... i can't STAND cheating. the one thing i cant forgive.
2006-12-01 20:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, its not right cheating at your bf/gf...but...i got to admitt..i do have cheated....if you want to be my friend...just add me at your YM contact lists...i can be your friend! dont worry, its not that bad the time ive cheated...we can talk about that things.....my add is dp4alt0153@yahoo.com...i'll wait for your response!!!!
2006-12-01 20:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by dp4™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on my girlfriend. We have been together almost 2 years and i love her so much.
2006-12-01 20:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did! And to make bad matters worse I got caught in the act too.
2006-12-01 20:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by matthew p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did when I was dating. Not on everyone, but ocassionally. I wasn't married to a boyfriend, nor did I expect to behave like I was. When it was time to move on, I did.
2006-12-01 20:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you cheat then your probley not happy and should move on for both of you and honest yes i have cheated and felt awful
2006-12-01 20:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by snaggles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated, but have been cheated on.
2006-12-01 20:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by Honesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never and its one thing i will NEVER do... and for the girls that are ever tempted to cheat or already have, please listen to the song "Kim" by Eminem... its not that great of a "song" but listen to it all the way through
2006-12-01 20:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not
2006-12-01 20:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋