My boyfriend cheated on me with his babies mom when I was deathly ill and hospitalized for 6 months. I needed him and he betrayed me. I cant stop thinking about them having sex in my bed and I get mad somtimes like out of no where.
2006-12-01 12:29:59 · 14 answers · asked by Boo Boo Kitty Fuck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK so he cheated on my with his babys mom it was a difficult time b/c I was in the hospital for 6 months and she hates me so she went out of her way to have sex with him just to get to me I know he is in the wrong to but I understand that he was confused I mean I almost died. She is just a dumb ***** who still says **** about him cheating on me. He begged for forgivness and he swore he would never do it agian.
2006-12-01 12:44:04 · update #1
Ask yourself how badly you want to kill her? Do you want your fellas child to grow up without a mum? Of course, if you're put in prison, chances off he'd have another woman in no time at all, and then the child might have a step mum.
It might be better to tell the fella - that you only thought you'd forgiven him - as you are so pathetically needy.
Face Facts - Dump your boyfriend and don't kill her. Walk away - you'll feel much better. You know you can't trust him again.
2006-12-01 12:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I am so sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated on you...and he did it in your own bed...how sick is that...he isn't the one for you...what happens if you go somewhere for a long period of time...will he sleep with another woman in your bed...he didn't even have enough respect for you to do somewhere else...in your own bed...do you two still sleep in that bed together...I'm so sorry that you even have to live through this...that guy doesn't love you...he may say he does...but we women are too smart to fall for that line...besides we don't have to anymore...you can do it...be brave...find someone who will be loyal to you and only you...as you deserve...I know you are a smart girl and will make the right decision...although it may be hard...depend on your family and friends for support..they will be there for you...I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-01 20:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All it happened with you because you do not have any respect for yourself.
Well, still, with all understanding and sorry for that situation, if you forgave him you should forgive her. Otherwise your words are only words. In reality you did not forgive and you all full of anger and meanness, which will lead you to the hospital again...
2006-12-01 20:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute....you were in the hospital for 6 MONTHS?! You were a very sick lady. He cheated on you? You need to ask yourself why you are staying with a man that wasn't there for you when you needed him most. Please think this through, talk to someone you can trust, and decide if he's really worth it. He's your boyfriend, not your husband. He cheated on you, when you needed his support. I think you deserve better.
2006-12-01 20:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you forgave him but want to kill her? Forgiving someone doesn't mean wanting them around you anymore. Did you actually take this creep back? It sounds like it.
They both were to blame so don't just be upset with her.
I think you need to dump him and find out how you picked a guy like him to begin with so you don't pick another loser. You deserve better treatment than he gave you.
2006-12-01 20:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that is going to take time, I have had this problem myself. The best thing to do is if your religious at all is when you get mad pray or do whatever you do. If you can't do that or don't believe in it, clean and keep yourself busy. Listen to some angry music plus talk talk talk to him about it.
2006-12-01 20:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You FORGAVE him? I'd hospitalize him in a minute if I found that out. Direct your anger carefully, hon. You shouldn't have to put up with that scum-sucker.
2006-12-01 20:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why are you mad at her? Get mad at that sack of sh*t you call a boyfriend. Babies momma...give me a frickin' break with this hillbilly crap.
2006-12-01 20:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-01 20:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey- either you live with it or you don't. Nobody, to my knowledge said that you have to STAY with this guy!
2006-12-01 20:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋