I like this guy and he likes me. But i am mormon and we arent suupposed to date until we are 16... and i dont want my mom knowing i am going out with a guy. But the guy still hasnt asked me out... but i want to go out with him but im afraid if my mom finds out i will get in trouble... what do i do??? I want him to ask me out but he hasnt made the move and i dont want to ask him out... the guy usually makes the first move....
P.S. this guy is mormon too
2006-12-01 12:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have the same faith and beliefs then he will understand and probably doesn't want to do anything now because he knows the rules......
....why not enjoy being friends until the time is right and you can move on to the next level together with the blessings of both families?
2006-12-01 12:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till your 16. if you decieve your mmother and she finds out . She won't trust you for a very long time and you will have to do alot to show her that you can be trusted again. further more she may not allow you to date till your 17 for going against her wishes. So you could make your situation much worse. You think 16 is to far away try 17 and up.
If this boy likes you he can wait till your 17 or move on to someone one else and come back to you when your 16.
2006-12-01 12:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go behind your mother's back - she is the one person in the world you should never lie to. How about a group date with lots of kids. A movie or dinner out together? Then you are not going against your family wishes and still get to know this guy.
2006-12-01 12:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 16. . .and really likes you, he will understand your situation and most likely ask you out when you turn 16 (if he knows your age). Until then, just hang out and be friends. Your mother shouldn't have a problem with you having friends. Maybe you and a group of people should hang out just in case, that way you will be with him, and your mom might be okay with it.
Just be patient and wait.
2006-12-01 12:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like it when the girl makes the first move. As far as being Mormon, well,, good luck with that.
2006-12-01 12:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by selljpk4fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's mormon so he couldnt ask you out. because of the 16 year old rule. maybe you should talk to him, like say hey i really like you and if he does you too can find a way to solve this out.
2006-12-01 12:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are of an age to date. The reason for this is a good one if you ask your parents.
2006-12-03 00:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you need to be patient on this one. You will have plenty of time to date after you are 16, and if he really likes you he will wait too.
2006-12-01 12:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tony F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends and stay true to your faith. This is temptation, and enduring temptation is part of growing up.
You don't say how old you are, but if you are serious about your faith, and respect for your family, then wait until you're 16. If he asks you out, tell him you'd like to say yes but that you can't out of respect for your faith and family. He should respect that. And if he's serious about you, he will be expecting it.
2006-12-01 12:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until 16 den date
2006-12-01 12:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋