Why ladies?
2006-12-01 12:06:27 · 23 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are not attracted to nice guys, that is why.
2006-12-01 12:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by me8md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I know this sounds like lame answer but we just dont believe that youre nice for a while. We have sort of a waiting period for when the new wears off and the real you shines through, we wont believe youre really nice until this new wears off. So just stick with it and be genuine we can sense a fake a mile away
2006-12-01 12:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they really want a nice AND handsome, spontaneous guy too, and usually nice and spontaneous don't go together. And some women just aren't smart enough to realize something was good until they lose it and can't get it back. Don't worry someone will come along that appreciates you for who you are.
2006-12-01 12:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by LikeItsMyLast 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they really don't know the meaning of a nice guy. Maybe their definition of a nice guy is someone who agrees with everything they say and never argues with them. Those kinds of girls are probably just stuck up anyways.
2006-12-01 12:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shwing! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE SHE PROBABLY THINKS HE'S UGLY
Most of us are too superficial and dumb to realize when we have a nice guy that's worthy. Of course, there are some who really do want nice guys. I personally refuse to date jerkoffs. So instead of asking why women say they want nice guys but run away when they get one, you should be asking, why do guys always fall for girls who date jerkoffs, and then whine about how girls say they want nice guys but date jerkoffs, when there are plenty of girls out there who really DO want nice guys, but you're not interested in them?
2006-12-01 12:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to that. There is a huge disconnect between what women say and what they do. This is a repeating pattern in almost everything having to do with women.
So, ignore what they say and watch what they do, to learn the correct way to deal with them.
2006-12-01 12:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just worried that if they act needy toward a nice guy, they will have no interest in them. It all depends on the girl because she may want someone that respects her decisions and treats her right. But on the other hand girls have needs and a nice guy won't do that for them......if you know where I'm coming from. Girls want their opposite because it makes them feel complete..........like if she likes something different, he can try it to see if he likes it. I hope I helped!!!
2006-12-01 12:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know, i have been pondering the same thing for a while now.. i have no idea.. but its so very true. i guess its just something about a tough guy who doesnt care that makes you wanna try harder.. i guess us ladies just love a challenge. but once in a relationship i like to be the boss, i'd be danged if my boyfriend ever told me what to do.. ha
2006-12-01 12:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we want to drive you crazy. ;-)
Honestly babe, there are certain characteristics that attract women to men in general. Women tend to be attracted to "bad guys" because they exude confidence, control and excitement. In the end, we usually end up getting hurt. Ideally, a man I would be attracted to would be respectful and sweet, but also self-confident and willing to be the man in the relationship. This is all IMHO, of course. :-)
2006-12-01 12:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because those women are craze, I want a nice man but can not find one!! If I found one I would keep it. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-01 12:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, I seem to think all the guys i start dating are nice.. then they turn into lil monsters.. so really i feel more like i been fooled.. We want a nice guy.... we think we find one and then wham.. not so nice.. That is why i am unmarried i want a true nice guy..
2006-12-01 12:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋