WHAT SHOULD I DO SAY KNOW OR BRAKE UP WITH HIM?
2006-12-01 11:17:39 · 31 answers · asked by fatoumata f 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
It's perfectly natural. If you're not ready tell him and if he doesnt respect your decision, dump him. If he does, hes a keeper.
2006-12-01 11:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by MiamiGuy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say that you are not ready to have sex and that you do not feel comfortable yet. Tell him str8 out that if he would like to break up because he is not going to be getting any sex from you that he can, or ask if he would like to stay together. That is all cut and dry. If he dumps you then it's better that you know his intentions with you. if he stays with you and respects your wishes then great. But not having sex is not always a deal breaker in a relationship so be bold and do what is best for you. Don't worry about him.... He is and will be completely fine no matter what. All you need to worry about is your own self respect.
2006-12-01 11:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, a guy will always want a FREE SEX thats why we want to enter a relationship, after getting tired of the same routine, we will leave you and find another girl to screw, If you think you wanna enjoy the ride for the moment, go, but you also have to take into consideration your future, if you are not ready, then i suggest say NO, if he doesnt buy that, then dump him, its not worth it. Sex shouldnt be just a vagina inserted with a penis and thats it, it should be more thatn that. Take it from me, i messed up my life coz of it.
2006-12-01 15:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by boyet1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously think about it only if hes worth it and if his luv is true for you and if he guarenteess you that he'll always be there.but today most of the guys just want sex sothey go callin it luv.trust me dont do it bcoz ull regret it and it will scar ur life.luv is a long term committment try telling him that if he really luv you he'll wait till marriage and see what he says .common ur life is beautiful havin sex is not evertin .think about it ,
2006-12-01 22:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by earth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about saying No? Clearly you don't want to -- that should be just as important (or more) than the fact he wants to. If that is all he wants, break up with him. Find someone who respects you and cares what you want.
2006-12-01 14:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by world_gypsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you asking this question in "community service".......should be in the family & relationships area.
What you say to your boyfriend is NO.
If you don't know what to say to him you more than likely do not know about birth control. So just say NO.
2006-12-01 11:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend wants you to have sex or break up with him, then break up with him. No guy is worth that. You need to have sex when you feel redy not cos you are being pressurised. It's a big step not one you should make cos you don't want to dump him.
2006-12-01 11:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by katieplatie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have him sign an agreement that if you allow him then he has to take care of you fianceally for the rest of your life! If he will not agree, tell him to take a long walk on a short peir!!!
2006-12-01 11:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
If you have to ask others then you are not sure and you should say NO. If yes was the right answer, you would know this in your heart.
2006-12-01 19:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety NEVER EVER NEVER SHOULD U BE FORCED INTO A POSITION THAT YOU DONT FEEEL RIGHT ABOUT NOW I HAVE NO IDEA HOW OLD U RBUT U R NOT MARRIED AND PLEASE REMEMBER IF U DO AND U DO IT UNPRTECTED U WILL HAVE HAD THEN HAD SEX WITH EVERYONEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE HE HAS AND YOU WILL BE POSSIBLY EXPOSED TO AIDS AND COULD DIE IT IS NOT WORTH IT LEAVE HIM MANY BOYS TRY U AND U HAVE TO B STRONG AND MOVE ON I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW OLD U R.
2006-12-01 11:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋