I've been going out with a shy Korean girl for about 3 months, and I still haven't kissed her! I'm her first boyfriend, and I don't want to push her into anything, so the first 3 weeks we were going out, I asked her if I could kiss her, and she said no, but she didn't seem mad or anything so I just assumed she wasn't ready.
Today, we went out to see a movie and there's barely anyone in the cinema, and we're sitting pretty alone, and I had my arms around her, and she had her arms around my neck... I was at a point where my forehead was against hers and our noses met. But when I slowly went in closer, she shifted her eyes off of me to the movie, so I took that as a sign to stop.
I think she's kinda shy, I mean I'm her first boyfriend and all. Do you have any advice? Should I just go for the kiss even when her eyes shift off from me to the movie? And sometimes when I get in close to go for the kiss, she turns her head a bit so our lips aren't aligned. Kinda frustrated.
YM: chaselachey
2006-12-01 11:08:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's 15 and I'm 17
2006-12-01 11:12:17 · update #1
This wasn't our first date.. We've gone out many times..
2006-12-01 11:15:35 · update #2
Talk to her about it. The first kiss is always a bit scary because you're not sure if the more experienced person will laugh at you for being a lousy kisser. She is probably really nervous about it so don't pressure too much but do talk about it to see what her feelings are.
2006-12-01 11:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by M N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I know how she feels.I just got out of my first relationship.First if she gives you a sign to stop stop.Make her first kiss special.Go out somewhere romantic but somewhere where she feel comfortable.Make sure she knows you are in the relationship for her not what you can do with her.Buy her gifts.Flowers, candy, stuffed animal or anything like that.It don't have to be expensive.It is the thought that counts.Ask her in 3 or 4 weeks can you kiss her.If she says no then tell her whenever she decides the first kiss will happen that is ok with you.Tell her to just let you know.Good luck.
2006-12-01 11:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab her and kiss her! a shy woman wont ever make the first move you have to. If youve been going out for 3 months its socialy akward for you not to have kissed her yet.
2006-12-01 11:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grip her arms, look at her with passion in your eyes and quickly kiss her forhead. Kiss other parts of her until you can comfortably kiss her lips. Don't want to scarethe poor girl
2006-12-01 11:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are pretty good hints that she doesn't want you to kiss her. If you do it anyway, that would be pushing her into something, and she probably would react negatively. That is not the right thing to do.
2006-12-01 11:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Varlis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should wait awhile for her to be comfertable. if your her first bf than she probably has had no experience with kissing and stuff like that. i say wait awhile until she is ready to kiss you, maybe a talk with her about it will help. you might leanr new stuff about each other and still might get a smooch! P.S. good luck!
2006-12-01 11:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by asdf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it... get her side maybe there is a reason behind it. But seriously if the timing is right go for it she will probly like it and be happy. maybe she is playing hard to get, if she is it is working!!LOL Good luck!
2006-12-01 11:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by turttlebert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Make sure she is ready before you do it. I think it is great that you asked her before so keep doing that.
2006-12-01 11:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS PROOUBLY HER FIRST KISS AND ALL. DON'T RUSH A GIRL TO KISS SO FAST. IF THIS WAS YOUR FIRST DATE WITH HER THEN OF COURSE YOU SHOULD'NT KISS HER YET.
2006-12-01 11:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
push a little bit, but give her some space cuz it's her first date.......you know what i'm saying?
2006-12-01 11:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋