ok i'm the younger of 5. i'm used to get TONS of attention from everybody, so if people don't do what i want.. i get angry. I got attention specially from Women, cuz i have 3 sisters that always gave me lot of attention, buyed me everything i wanted and do everything i wanted. They treated me like i was some sort of little king of the house. So now i'm older.. and when i try to get women, i expect THEM to pay attention to me, THEM to like me first, THEM to call me.. and that stuff, cuz i've used to be treated like that when i was a child, and women NEVER do it, so i get sad and desperate cuz it's like if i need attention to live, i just need it. How can i stop thinking like that and stop demanding attention from others??????? help plz! if u can, get me a link where i can read about that plz
2006-12-01 11:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like in order to give appreciation, love, and that stuff to chicks i just NEED to recieve it first, cuz i've used to it
2006-12-01 11:04:49 · update #1
i feel like in order to give appreciation, love, and that stuff to chicks i just NEED to recieve it first, cuz i've used to it...
I'm 17 now
2006-12-01 11:06:29 · update #2
codependancy!
2006-12-01 11:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there . i hope i will be able to help.
Have you ever heard of the saying "You can never get everything you want". I understand that as a child u were treated as a king. but now u are a grown man and u need to start acting as one, which means that if u want something´ng you have to work hard to get it. It is traditional that the man always have to be the one to make the first move. Trust me any woman who has self pride will wait for the guy to do that. I think you should try too. You make friends with her then try to call her too ,with that she would have a reason to call u back. I know u have missed out on al to of sweet girls because of your weakness, but now u have to try changing it. If you want a woman who would respect you and treat you right , you have to do the same. Ask your sisters for help may be they can give a tip or two. and trust me alittle attention is cool but alot of it is stupid. I also think you have a security issue or confidence issue. Any ways do the right thing.
2006-12-01 19:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by lolalinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a grown up man you need to change things quite a bit. You have to be man and stop being a little boy.
2006-12-01 19:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thankx for the 2 points
2006-12-01 19:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by that's hawt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy... don't be a careless piece of ****... just don't expect it... if you really like someone.. YOU will show them the attention. don't think THEY will... cause they won't.. u have to make an attempt
2006-12-01 19:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by tyler15463210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a therapist and grow up.
2006-12-01 19:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Feel Realgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a link
2006-12-01 19:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gilbert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, deal with it, your not a little kid anymore.
2006-12-01 19:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling
2006-12-01 19:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please is a good start.
2006-12-01 19:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by DBL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋