Well i love(ed) this guy && he broke up with me for another girl again 4 the last time but i cant get over loving him && i am afraid to date any1 else && i am afraid of comitment now! wat should i do to get him off my mind && how do i start dating other people??
2006-12-01 10:49:10 · 21 answers · asked by Chains 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First find yourself and know who you are. Don't jump into another relationship. You are not over him and I would just spend some quality time with yourself. As for dating other people I would do it for fun and nothing serious, unitl you decide you are ready to date again.
2006-12-01 10:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a few days 2 get over it....do what u have 2 scream, cry, yell whatever. after a few days of feeling sorry 4 urself, do something good 4 u like run a hot bath n sit back n think of all the things u want 2 do and things u never got the chance 2.
then every time u think about him go out and do one of those things u always wanted 2. make sure u try and meet at least one person each time. before u know it u will be over him n having fun. dating will come when ur ready. u have the rest of ur life 4 men so take this time 4 urself.
good luck
2006-12-01 18:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for u. I really do. Im a guy and I can tell you that most of the time its the guy ditching a good girl who is commited to him, for another piece of ***. It isnt going to change any time soon. Dont be afraid of starting another relatinship and comitting to it. Just be ready for him to break it off with u at any moment. Unfortunately it means keeping urself somewhat un attached. It sucks I know. But why waste your whole heart on an *** hole.There are very few guys out there who will meet you half way on commitment. Its unfortunate but true. So stay strong and tough and keep your eyes peeled for decent men who would give their right arm for a committed girl like you. Decent guys are out there. They are usually considered nice.
Not cocky or arrogant, but genuinely nice good decent men.
2006-12-01 18:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just get over it and start thinking of you and open your eyes.There are manythings other then this that will happen in your life and you will have to move forwerd and go threw things.Never give up on somthing just cause it went wrong the first time..Every bad thing can have somthing learned from it.Just depends if you learn from it or not.Its his fault he walked away from you the first time,but the second time its your fault.You shouldnt let the same mistakes happen to you.Dont blame the next guy for what your x did.Go with the flow and when and if the next guy does a bad ,then learn from iot the first time,then scream NEXED
2006-12-01 18:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the past. You can determine the future.
Get out there and get as many guys to ask you out as you can. Don't jump into a relationship....make it friendly and casual and flirt your butt off day and night.
After dating four or twenty different guys, you will find one that wonderful.
Crying over a lost boy is like crying over a lost toy you had when you were five!
2006-12-01 18:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start dating anyone else right now. It would be useless. Instead, why don't you volunteer somewhere and do something nice for someone else besides yourself? True joy comes for service.
Get an education, and be a stable employee. Get a life for yourself. THEN, and ONLY THEN, should you test the water with dating again.
2006-12-01 18:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactlly how u feel. i could never get this guy out of my mind after broke up wit. i just sat there and cried for hours. but u got to relize that he is a loser for brakin up wit someone that cared about him so much. and here is a sayin that helps alot "a guy that is not wroth ur tears would not make u cry" so if he is makin u cry he isnt worth crying over. u get it ?? and the way i got over it was to just act happy be ur self and soon there will be another guy wanting u.
2006-12-01 18:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by kaity_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sit in Conner by ur self and cry get it all out. Than when you realize how stupid it was for crying over the mistake that he made you'll get mad. Then just live life just like you met him you'll met someone else. Just don't look for it are you will find your self trying to make a guy be the one.
2006-12-01 18:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by tim w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, find something to occupy your time, take a class, read a book, hang out with supportive friends and family. Give yourself some time alone. God bless****
2006-12-01 18:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know its ruff. but listen take ur mind off him watch some new movies not old movies u watched with him. and then give me a call look me up on myspace.com/izz03 not the best looking guy but i got ya;)
2006-12-01 18:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by bigizz75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋