Ok here is the deal i am pregnant(8 months now)i was 5 months when this happened.The baby's father broke up with me for as he says his own reasons then later i found out it was for another girl.Then i found out he cheated on me.Now he has done so many bad things with other girls and people tell me theses things and it just all hurts me.The thing is i still love him and he has a girlfriend.I just hate going through the pain with loving him and him with his girlfriend.so if u can help please help.
2006-12-01 10:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jilly Boo Boo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK first things first,you need to stop worrying about him b/c he's not worried about you and take care of yourself and that baby. God has given you this gift only b/c he knows you can handle it and do the right thing when it comes to your kid. Be strong and also take him to court and if he tries to deny this child get a paternity test done. I know it was ridiculous but it will make him grow up( even if he doesn't want to). Its too late to change what has transpired but you can move forward w/your life but it will be hard. Take shelter & faith in GOD and take care of yourself. Sonner or later he'll come around even if its just to be there for your kid..the most important thing to remember is your not alone in this many women have the situation w/their boyfriends. my father was never there for me and i always wanted to see him ,but my mom said no. i said why not a few years ago and she told me b/c of his drug addiction he wasnt the same sometimes no father is better than w/a bad father. take care and hope you find this advice supportive.
2006-12-01 10:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by nativegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he did these to you especially at a time when the situation of you being pregnant should've brought you two closer together and he wasn't interested in doing that but rather being with other girls then he must not love you too much. The feelings are just strong on your side and hes not showing by his actions that he wants the same things as you do. He has a girlfriend right now as your going to deliver soon so that might tell you a lot about what he feels is important. He values being with other women a little bit more than building a relationship with the person he was with and the mother of his child. I hope this helps you and now is the time for you to get your priorities straight. Worry and concentrate on your baby now and not what another man wants or is trying to do.
2006-12-01 10:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the baby up for adoption. Give the child a chance at having 2 stable, mature parents. It's not about you or what you want or what loser you love. It's about an innocent human being deserving better than this mess.
www.adoption.org
2006-12-01 10:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this must suck to hear.... but here goes anyway. The guy isn't worth the time that you spent putting together your email. He doesn't give a rats a** about you. Cease ALL communication with him that has nothing to do with child support. Only time will heal this wound.
2006-12-01 10:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so simple babe move on he aint worth a toss by the sounds of it.
2006-12-01 10:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO RESPECT TO LOVE. SO WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT HIM? I THINK YOU ARE CONFUSED... THATS NOT LOVE.
2006-12-01 10:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋