if a guy ask a girl out and he pays for her every time , but only on xmas, birthday valentine he buys her gifts,and he is kind and harmless and loving but not very rich,and there is body chemistry
wouyld you still want him as your girl friend and wife????
assuming he tell you when you go shopping you will buy your own things without him buying unless it is xmas, birthday and valentine
2006-12-01 10:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by tritran5555(poetri) 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what I want to ask is
would you still date a guy if he pays for you every time you go out with him but he refuses to buy gifts for you unless it is xmas, your birth day, valentine day.....assuming he also is compatible with you and kind gentle honest sweet to you
2006-12-01 10:43:34 · update #1
I mean boyfriend or husband
2006-12-01 10:46:25 · update #2
I would NEVER want a guy for my girlfriend OR my wife!
2006-12-01 10:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you suggeting a sex change? You did say, "would you still want him as your girlfriend and wife????" Honestly I'm not into girls and I want to date a guy who's gonna be a dude from the womb to the tomb, ya know.
But I woudn't have a problem with it. I'm not even thinking about marriage now, but dating wise yes. Although, he wouldn't have to keep buying me stuff just so I will like him. I mean going dutch is still do able.
Just a thought...
2006-12-01 18:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, now we are living in a century where each minds his own business.
If you want to pay for everytime you go out and at each anniversarry or so, you will soon be bankrupt and you will let her be used to u spending on her.
the relation will change from friends or love relation to materialistic relation, and whenever you dont pay, there will be a problem and she will hate you gradually.
So, it is better to work it out quickly.
When you want to go out with her, when she wants to buy things, make yourself busy in looking at other things or that you are saving money to but something for yourself, or that your parents arent giving you a great deal of money, or your work is somehoe bad these days.
One week or so, she will get used to pay for herself, and she will only loves for ur personality and not your money.
Bring her gifts at anniversaries, but not at daily basis keep paying, it is no good. really.
Wish I gave you the best answer my friend...good luck.
2006-12-01 18:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. although. flowers are nice once in awhile. its not a gift but a reminder that you love her. although she might not forget if its just that close. the point is. as much as i would love a guy to pay i dont mind paying sometimes. and gifts on holidays are great. cards and flowers in between are nice too. and not that expensive.
2006-12-01 18:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would still want him as my boyfriend/husband. And F.Y.I a girlfriend/ wife is a female. I'm assuming you mean "would you still want him as you boyfriend and husband".
2006-12-01 18:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by cheerdnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's called being used if someone only wants you for the gifts that you buy them !!
2006-12-01 18:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want any guy as my girl friend and wife????
2006-12-01 18:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU need to learn how to make sense in you sentences.....then maybe i can tell you what i think....thanks!
2006-12-01 18:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by *NANCY* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋