All my boyfriend and I do is argue. Tired of it, can't get along and I don't want to leave...but he's pushing me to it.
help!!!
2006-12-01 10:32:58 · 35 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to me i am definitly right. I was doing the same thing to my girl and it was very unsetting to her. I only did this because i knew she would never break up with me. But after she put up with it for 5 years she asked me for a break. I asked why and she said im sick of being yelled at and argueing with you so i want a break. All that security and taking her for granted went away. All she did was say i want a break to figure stuff out. Ask him for a break if if he says no tell him he has np choice. After a few days of that he will realize what he has and will treat you like a preincess. trust me.
2006-12-01 10:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find the root of the arguments? Are you arguing because of differences? Maybe there is an underlying issue that needs resolving. Check your communication level first. . . if you two can't communicate well then everything will lead to an arguement. Good luck .. Communication is tough, and I think the key to a great relationship <3
2006-12-01 10:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by niclovesjeremy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fly: well we all argue some times because there is no ideas
to agree upon. But for you I think best way is make an final
deciding point as possible then dump him right away it's the best
thing that yourself shall do !
good Luck & God bless
2006-12-01 10:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys keep arguing , then you can sit down with him and talk about it. Come up with a compromise with why you are fighting and about what?. If you still cannot come up with a solution then it's best to just leave.
If you don't want to leave and it seems like he's pushing you into it then, you shouldnt put yourself through this when all's you do is fight.
My Ex and I that's all we did is fight it seemed like then everything was great for awhile, then we fought more and more. Even Christmas Eve we fought because she was angry because I didn't get her exactly what she wanted and she thought I didn't put enough effort into the relationship. Then, one time she wanted me to explain to her everytime I couldn't take her out to dinner and it made me angry.
That's the best solution I can give you. First say let's talk and if talking for awhile doesn't work , say to him its best if were just friends and if something sparks after that thats great and if not, it wasn't meant to be.
2006-12-01 10:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It takes 2 to argue. Simply don't do it. When a discussion starts to turn into an argument, tell him you'll come back to that subject when the two of you can talk about it rationally, but you're over the arguing...then walk away and cool down.
2006-12-01 10:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it all depends really on what exactly you are arguing about. You both have to have understanding on eachothers differences. If the both of you have the love then you will have the understanding. If either one of you do not respect eachother with trust, compassion and unerstanding then it will never work. If your not feeling that from him talk to him about it. If he just blows you off then you should would walk away. He will probably never change.
2006-12-01 10:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to hear that, my boyfriend and i did the same thing about a year after being together. we have been together for 4 and half years now and i coulnt ask for anyone better. one thing u need to think about, if you guys are truly serious and want to stay together, is notice what u guys are argueing about. is it small things? things that you can forgive and forget. nothing is more serious that your love for one another. as hard as it is. during an arguement. my bf and i just stop and say i love u. just so we know. and we actually do better. but i know that isnt always the case. as we will not talk the whole night. i get irritated easily. and things he does irritate me. if you guys want to make it work, than sit down and talk about th argueing. not WHEN your argueing. but when everythings calm. ask for a chat. and let him know how u feel. and i know you guys can work on that. sorry to hear it tho. you guys both need to have a talk! good luck!
2006-12-01 10:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are so sick of arguing with each other, might be best to discuss the situation and take some time away from the relationship and see if things get better if not it's time to move on.
2006-12-01 10:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by drummerboy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to stay in a relationship where you are continuously arguing? What are the benefits? You need to get out. This is very unhealthy, for both of you. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-01 10:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Both of you need to sit down and think about what you argue about and what causes the arguments. In the future try to avoid them especially if they are over dumb things. A little arguing in a relationship is health, just not on a constant basis.
2006-12-01 10:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋