Ok...there is this thing I read about dealing with sex that kind of turns me on and I want to try..it's "sleepy sex" it's basically where you start initiation sex while your partner is asleep. I would love to have it done to me, anyone share this fanstasy? I would also love to try it on my girlfriend but I think it goes to close to violation. Any girls ever had this done to them by their partner (consentual) and did you like it? I want to see if I can get my girl to wake me up like that and then maybe try on her. Any suggestions? thanks.
2006-12-01 10:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I love "sleepy sex", it's great. Because you're half asleep, you have no inhibitions, but without all the yukkiness of being drunk or drugged.
It's easier to get started than you think. Not everybody knows this, but during REM or "dream sleep", men always have erections and women are always moist and aroused - doesn't mean the dreams are erotic or anything, it's just what happens due to the hormone cycle of sleep.
So she needs to make sure you are dreaming (easiest just before you wake up in the morning) and er ... well, I'm sure you'll both figure it out! (But many guys like being woken up orally ....)
2006-12-01 11:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It actually happens naturally! If you live with the girl or are married to her, sooner or later one of you will wake up horny and try to initiate sex before the other wakes up.
My personal experiences have been positive. Many a time my eyes would slam open out of a sound sleep because my wife or girlfriend was "playing" with my C***. Instant smile!!!
Many a time SHE woke up with my hand fondling her breast. In a healthy relationship it usually leads to a great beginning of the day!
Go for it!
2006-12-01 10:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd love it!
Unless the person is passed out from alcohol or drugs, if you're WITH that person, then it's consentual - because they would wake up during the foreplay. If they don't wake up - then back off because something else is going on -- and unless you're in a deeply committed relationship such acts could backfire on you.
2006-12-01 10:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like fun, well better than an alarm clock, i don't know if you know who he is, but Ralph Little (an actor, plays jhonny in "two pints of larger and a packet of crisps") has an alleged habbit (he said this on TV in a prgram called "me and my balls" which was basically to raise awareness of testicular cancer) that when his girlfriend is sleeping with her mouth open he errr, well im sure u can get the idea.
2006-12-01 10:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sleepy sex is GREAT!!!! i love it. of course i love sex, in general. i think i have a prob.!? but ok this about you. how long you and your girl been together? how well do you know her? you need to be close to her know everything about her. talk to her tell her to wake you up, by playing with you.
2006-12-01 10:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by esha2rae_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ,personally DO NOT like to have my sleep interupted!
I'm like a grouchy old bear when some one wakes me up if I'm really sleepy.
I got to have my sleep.
And I would HATE having my husband try to do that to me while I was sleeping.
2006-12-01 10:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol ... i done it its great
its something new and he loved it
talk to her about it and if shesays yes wait a couple weeks and try it that way it is unexpected
good luck and have funn
2006-12-01 10:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its one of the best ways in the world to wake me up im 100 all for it
2006-12-01 10:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure it's great. Tell her how sexy you would find it, hopefully she will get the hint. If not try it on her, just proceed slowly, give her chance to turn it down if she don't want it.
2006-12-01 10:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find yourself a sexsomniac...unless your a really deep sleeper I doubt you wiil be able to stay asleep for long.
2006-12-01 10:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Petalouda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋