I'm currently 24 wks. 6 days preg. w/my 1st child..It's a boy..But I am having depression REALLY bad, and I' just a nervous wreck! My husband & I live w/my grandparents & mom (It was their Idea, & whenever my mom IS home, she's engaged), b/c of my pregnancy being to high-risk, I'm scared to stay alone b/c of previous problems, needless to say they live around alot of D-R-A-M-A..yelling, to doors slamming that's all they do, ever since they found out I was pregnant.Now we pay 300 bucks a month to stay here, But I can't put up w/this hell I am going through..All I can do Is constantly shake..My ONLY other alternative Is to ride in w/my husband who ( is a mechanic) and works 12 hours a day..I've got friends, but they've got jobs & school..I took "maternity leave" b/c I had shown signs of pre-term labor twice already, can't keep chancing It..Does any body have any suggestions? I'm looking for serious answers, b/c this is a VERY serious matter to me..Thanks!
2006-12-01 10:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by superkisses86 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Move out. It will be better for your marriage, your sanity, and your child.
2006-12-01 10:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Visit the doctor, they may be able to give you something to calm your nerves, and curb the depression. You really do need to be at your own house and relaxing all day. If your pregnancy is high risk you may be able to get a home health nurse to visit you a couple of hours a day, or put an add in the paper that you need someone to sit with you, like a babysitter but not really, someone to keep you company and be there if you go into labor or need to get to the hospital or need an ambulance, I am sure you could pay someone 100 a week to sit with you at least 8 hours. Sleep late and have someone come over when you get up and stay for about 8 hours. If ou could make yourself sleep until about 11 then you could have someone come over and sit with you for most of the time your husband was gone, especially if he works 7am-7pm or something like that. Besides you said when your mom IS home. Do you really think your grandparents would be able to get you to the hospital saftley. Talk to your doctor about this.
2006-12-01 18:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by archatham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know what you mean I have a sister that has anger issues but the best thing for you to do is get out of there your baby dont need to be around all that. I know I have a 1 year old and I am 37 weeks pregnant with a girl. Keep your head help high and Move out befor baby is born...
2006-12-09 18:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by christy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOh honey, you need to move. I could not put up with that kind of drama especially being pregnant, you need your rest. Maybe you can take some time out and go to a park or something (that is if the weather is good where you are); or maybe go to a bookstore and chill there until the evening, or find a library but don't sit at the desk, sit in one of the sofa chairs there.
2006-12-01 18:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lilaidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest changing your living situation ASAP! If you can live somewhere close to your grandparents so you can call them if you need them but not live with them that would probably help. Or you and your husband get a place close to his work so you can call him if you need something. I would get out of a bad situation before resorting to pills. Chemical depression, which is what the pills are designed for, is a depression that cannot be explained by situations or experiences.
2006-12-01 18:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by AerynneC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get a place of your own and if your afraid to be alone go to your familys house while your husband is at work and when he gets off go home and relaxe.
2006-12-01 18:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-01 18:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
you need to get out of this environment. explain it to your husband, let him know how unhappy you are and tell him you guys need to get a place of your own. i think removing yourself from that house would be the best thing for you and your depression would probally get better. if it doesnt talk to your doctor.
2006-12-08 17:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move out. You willbe better off alone for your sake and the babies.
2006-12-01 18:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by nicsgirlus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a therapist, doctor, or some sort of person.
2006-12-01 18:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Twinkle_Toes 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋