there is this guy and i like him and he likes me back. i am gunna see him next weekend and now whenever i see him i get like really nervous and it is hard to talk and i shake!! i know ir sounds retarded but i try so hard not to and i cant quit. and he told his friend the next time that he sees me that he is gunna ask me out !! i am really excited but when i say yes i dont wanna be to desprate and i dont wanna be like ooo i got to think about it cause than he might think i dont like him . so i have 2 questions how can i get rid of my nerves and wat do i say when he asks me out ?? PLEASE HELP !!!
2006-12-01 10:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you, he likes you the way you are, nerves and all. So, just be yourself, don't think about it too much, just be. If he asks you out, say yes, if that's what you want. Don't get all hung up about appearing desperate, or about putting him off. Don't get into playing those sort of games. He wants to go out with you, you want to go out with him, so just do it. If it were me, I would probably say 'I was beginning to think you'd never ask!' have a laugh about it, and then go off and have a real good time with him.
Go, enjoy yourself!
2006-12-01 10:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by fallen angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same situation once. and the key is to just relax. i know that sounds so shrinkish but its the truth. relax put aside you feelings for just one second and then think do i want to do this is he the guy i wont to go with or should i get to unknown im then date. its all up to you. if you heart says do it then do it. say yes. but if you heart says no then no. trust your self. and free fall in to the known. justt make sure you heart starts to race, and your palms sweat. then jus do it.
2006-12-01 10:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by chantell M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act as u act with ur friends
act as ur nature dont add or remove from personality
trust urself and give to urself the impression that he who dream to talk to u and u dont like him
then u will be ok
and when he talked to u reply to him as a queen
2006-12-01 10:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO calm your nerves: DO YOGA! Belive me, it helps! Take deep breaths, sing songs, shake your arms.
When he asks you out, just say "I'd love to (go out.)
Don't say anything like: YEAAA!!! SURE!!!! OMG!!!! The guys do NOT like that.
good luck! :)
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-01 10:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have nerves girl!!!! Just be yourself cuz thats why he likes you!!!! FOR WHO YOU ARE!!! I know its hard but it works. Its ok to sound desprete cuz he will think that you really like him!!!AND THATS GOOD!!! Good luck girl and post how it goes.
2006-12-01 10:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let your body language do the talking and when he asks u out give him a peck on the cheek or something
2006-12-01 10:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afriad!!! i was shaking when i called holly and i dont even like her but when we started talking it was fine!!!and just say "ya i would love to" when he asks u out
2006-12-01 12:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by brett c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple of deep breaths and say yes.youll be ok and good luck to you.....
2006-12-01 10:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by kelly r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say "sure I'd love to put your dickk in my mouth"
2006-12-01 10:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋