A woman I use to date has another guy and pretends its nothing. Every so often she calls and acts like she still wants me, she even will say she is coming over or will call and then it doesn't happen. This is annoying me but I hate to just be rude and ignore the telling calls. I realize she is using me. Basically, I do ignore her now. Is this okay?
2006-12-01 09:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by nellie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's using you as her "backup." when the other guys not around, she comes to you. when he's around she rather spend time with him. if you don't liked to be used then stop talking to her. why haven't you moved on? you still have feelings for that player?
2006-12-01 10:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not o.k.!! If you feel uncomfortable and she doesn't mean it whey would you let this go on? Sounds like to me she's doesn't give a damn about you or the other guy and how you feel and you deserve to be rude with her. I say you need to put a stop to this cause it's disrespectful and it just makes her sound like a dirty whore!!
2006-12-01 18:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live your life in co-existence with a really annoying person, sure, it's okay. I wouldn't be able to put up with it though. I'd call it quits and tell her not to bother me anymore.
2006-12-01 18:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her
And if she calls again - f-u-c-k her real good
At least get some pussie out of the deal
2006-12-01 18:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its best to ignore her instead of hurting her feelings
2006-12-01 18:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like what you're doing is for your own good so yes, it's ok. you're doing what's best for yourself and avoiding a bad situation.
2006-12-01 18:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would cuz well if shes just use u like that i would just dropp her
2006-12-01 18:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally..you are a smart guy
2006-12-01 18:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋