Ok.... well there are these two guys and they are best friends. One of them asked me out in October (I said no because i didn't really relize that i liked him) and the other one told my best friend he liked me in June. They are both are my friends but we don't hang out after school or anything. Just in case you think I'm like one of those girls who always has to have a boyfriend I'm not! I like guys but I don't let them interfer with other things like friends, family, and school. So back to my question, Is it weird to like two different guys at the same time?!?
2006-12-01 09:38:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well yes, it is perfectly normal. I have had friends who had crushes on 3 guys! Well you might not actually like the guy that asked you out, because this boy asked me out, and i said yes, (but i didn't really like him) and then I started liking him alot after we broke up a few weeks later. but i didn't actually like him. I liked that he liked me.
2006-12-01 09:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ana Banana loves you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but I think it would be weird to like guys who are best friends. Does the guy who liked you in June still like you? If the other guy asked you out in October that means he probably told the June guy that he was into you. Maybe the June guy backed off. Really, what is your goal? If you're looking for a relationship for one of them, maybe the best thing to do is to hang out with both of them as JUST FRIENDS. If they're really best friends, they will talk about you in confidence and someone will stake their claim. Maybe by then you will know who you really like anyways. Good luck.
2006-12-01 09:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's totally normal. you just have to think and see WHY you like them? what makes them stand out from all the other boys? i may be younger or older than you.. i'll never know.. but when it comes to relationship problems.. i tend to know quite a bit about them.. to like to guys is difficult. especially if they both have liked you at one point. usually.. the key to relationships is talking to the guy.. but not in this case. first you have to figure out what it is about them that makes you fall all over them? they may have total different personalities. when you're with one.. how do you feel? when you're with the other how do you feel? is there something about one of them that you can't stand.. worse than the other? just try to figure it out.. once you've come to a solution.. talk to them. it'll help! best of luck!
2006-12-01 09:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you this. i used to have a crush on five people and they were older than me. then i realized that there is only one person out there that can make you feel a certain way. dont tell anybody if you dont wish too. i dont think its wierd i just think that its makes more sense to like one guy. because there is only one out there who can make you feel really good inside and outside.
2006-12-01 09:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird unless you go out with both of them at the same time you just have to choose witch one you like better like enough to go out with him you know unless you are both JUST really close friends.
2006-12-01 09:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pshhhhh no its not weird in 5th grade i lyked 8 guys at the same time but im not lyke that anymore
2006-12-01 09:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not wierd at all. you're right, at your age a guy should not be as important to you as family or friends or school.
2006-12-01 09:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wierd AND it IS ok. alot of girls like more than one guy. some like more than 2. but that's life, and it is normal. â¥
2006-12-01 09:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by thed0p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Adolescent girls often have this experience. It will wear off with maturity.
2006-12-01 09:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no I am and its wrong be case I still like my ex-boyfriend and I am gong out with somebody else
2006-12-01 09:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by I'm sooo cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋