There is this guy that i have known for like a couple of months. I want to date this person. I mean i have flirted, cuddled with him, showed him in every way that i am interested. He says that he thinks we are friends, but at other times he is confused. I want to know what you guys think and to know if there is anything that i can do, not sexual, to get the point through to him that i want him to be my boyriend.
2006-12-01 09:29:27 · 14 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lead by example, and most importantly ask/tell him.
then give him the sex and he'll realize what the deal is.
2006-12-01 09:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I'm sure that he knows your intentions, and though you think the answer is clear for him, I don't think he's going to act. From the sounds of it, he's not interested in you. If you're just dying to know, just ask, "Do you like me?" He'll probably say, "Yeah, as a friend." Then you say, "Just a friend?" and then he'll tell you the truth.
It might hurt, but at least you're not stuck wondering. Get over him, he's not interested. (I've been there... twice)
2006-12-01 09:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nadja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try the opposite approach of playing hard to get. Ignore him a little bit, act standoffish. If he is really interested he will take initiative & make the next move.
2006-12-01 09:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
persistance, persistance, persistance just being there will work if not someone he is usealy with like his friends will notice and you will still win good luck sounds like you are doing all you can that would and did work for my bf now hubbie
2006-12-01 09:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay his friend everwhere in any situation let him know you will not turn on him.
2006-12-01 09:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i find in this type of situation is to act like you don't care.....if you play it off like you don't care for him or like he's not that important in your life it might wrok.....cause guys wanted things they can't have.....i hope i helped.....good luck
2006-12-01 09:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt
2006-12-01 09:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massages.
(and i mean like shoulders... not below the belt.)
Feed him chocolate.
And if he doesn't already know, tell him you like him.
2006-12-01 09:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by kira-love ^-^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yoself
2006-12-01 10:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him honestly about it.
2006-12-01 09:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by kristamin00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋