OK so there are these two tottally different guys I like.
1 is a funny cute guy who I just so happen to be dating, but he just moved across the country on me so I don' really know what to do about it
2 is a cute HILARIOUS guy I happen to always wind up flirting with whether it's intentional or not, who happens to still be around a LOT
I like them both and am not sure what to do about the fact that i don' want to end it with 1 but I really like 2 at the same time! HELP!
2006-12-01 09:27:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im not sure how old you are, but assuming moving is not an option then go for the local guy if you like him. long distance relationships rarely work for adults and if you are young then you need to accept that a long didtance thing is nearly impossible. just try and stay friends with the guy who moved
2006-12-01 09:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by sfpd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are still in the "like" stage and not committed to either one in any real way just play it out and see which one works out. If you are exclusively dating one guy then maybe you need to tell him the distance is too much to deal with, unless of course you love the guy. Then it gets a whole lot different.
2006-12-01 17:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by alicesarbonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should consider if you are strong enough for a long distance relationship. if you cant then let it go and don't drag him through the mud with your relationship problems. i'm not saying you're wrong but just be careful. sit down and write down all of yo likes and dislike about each guy and just ask God for help in choosing the correct one. i know that may seem a little far fetched but you don't want to end up with someone for 3 months that you have to live with for the rest of your life
2006-12-01 17:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Emily F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart it is kind of a turn off that guy number one moved but your flirting with guy number 2 as your going out with guy number one so it seems that you like guy number two more so i think you should go out with him but still keep in touch with guy number one im sure he will understand if you just want to be freinds since you guys can't see each other. but like i said at the begging follow your heart you don't need anyone to tell you who to pick if you follow your heart.
2006-12-01 17:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only be with one and i think that the second one is a good choice only because it is obvisse that you like him and that he likes you. whatis the point of having 2 when you can have one that can fill your heart with love and joy. i you go with 2 they will find out eventually and you wont hurt them as much as they will hurt you. think about it is it really worth it going out with 2 when one is just about enough. your concesses wont leave you alone evr=en if you dont believe it it will happen. take only one and you will be happy that you made the right choice.GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-12-01 17:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by angelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know i am in the same boat.....my boyfriend is in Florida and has 2 babies and there's this other guy that goes to my school and I'm checking him out.....so the only thing i can say is think about it.....would he stay true to you??????would he be with other girls?????are you strong enough to have a long distance relationship?????after you think about that then you'll know what to do.....i hoped i help.....good luck
2006-12-01 17:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep em both.
Or get with the second guy, and lose the first.
2006-12-01 17:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can still date the one that is around because you don't know what the other one is doing while he's away.
2006-12-01 17:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by jamaica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to decide on one becuse 2 is not good you have to make your self decide on one or stay sengel for a wile remane friends with them
2006-12-01 17:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by sosweetman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just feel it out as long as you can. Time will tell you what to do.
2006-12-01 17:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by MYSTICHROME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋