im a Xtian guy and i love my gf alot. the only prblem is that when we do it she wants to do things to me that are sodomy (u can guess)
i want to say NO butt i let her 1 time and it was SOOOOOO awsome that its verry hard to say no now
i know its wrong what can i do????? i tried to IM her to say i dont want it but she lol and sed that tonite is my lucky nite
i am so scerred now of going to hell
2006-12-01 09:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by doom4rent 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You are already in hell
2006-12-01 09:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun. God is not going to send you to hell for this I promise....but why are you, a christian boy doing these sexual things anyway? I know it feels good. Trust me. Ive been there. But it isnt worth it in the end. If you dont marry this girl you are going to have to tell your future wife what youve done with her. A man that has saved himself for marraige is a man any christian woman wants and can respect. You need to get a new gf, or sit her down and tell her how much not doing this means to you. A girl will always test your beleifs if your beleifs are not on the same level. Its called being "equally yoked" in the bible. Trust Ive been there, I will always look back on the man who I did those things with as a man of weakness. Even though I allowed it, he would push me just enough, and took something precious away from me.
ohhh. and I want to tell "I know...Do you" Athiest lady, to stop acting like you know something abotu christianity. Go brush up on your bible skills cuz the argument you just made sucked balls. Anyone knows that reads the bible at all that once you ask God into your heart sincerely you are with him forever. I know a lot of athiest that read the bible from a historical stand point. Sounds like you should too before you go around acting like you have something important to say! Ouch!
2006-12-01 10:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by kmcknig1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude the same way as you save yourself from murder.
Don't do it. Very hard is one thing my brother, rape is another.
And by the way. You don't go to hell. There isnt't a single word in the Bible about what your doing. Not a sin. Sorry.
If your worried about your priest, then confess. I think that works for you guys. Say your sorry, and you're fine.
2006-12-01 09:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Croup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian, apparently you are going to hell anyways because you are having sex without marriage.
Just be an Atheist...we don't care what you do as long as it's in the confines of your own home!
2006-12-01 09:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Heck if I know! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repent. Ask for forgiveness. Pray about it...
If she is not willing to repent with you...perhaps she's not the girl for you...?
2006-12-01 09:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋