I wanna tell this guy that I like him but i'm too scared to do it face to face so I was thinking of writing it in a letter and giving it to him. Is this a bad idea?
2006-12-01 09:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would never put that into writing if he's not interested he may even use the letter to embarrass you
Just talk see if he wants to hang out a little if your old enough that is, you will soon find out if he is interested in you start with a friendship face to face if he laughs at you Deny Deny Deny
2006-12-03 20:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no real difference between writing a note and telling him face to face. He'll find out anyway, so its best to tell him face to face. Besides writing a note is kind of weird...
2006-12-01 17:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by ddzaszcxascs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. When you give someone a note and they don't respond, it's the worst feeling in the world. You torture yourself wondering if they got it and if so, what was their reaction. Where they flattered? Annoyed? Interested? You don't know. You might never know if they don't respond. It is better to do it somehow face to face and don't try and have a friend do it for you, it's as bad as a note. good luck!
2006-12-01 17:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think so. I would never put intimate feelings in writing and then give them out because they just might come back to embarass me. I think it would be far better to share your feelings one-on-one. Or at the very least, through a mutually trusted friend.
2006-12-01 17:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. If you like someone, you should be able to talk to them and tell them. This is a bad way to start a relationship if that's what you want.
2006-12-01 17:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him point blank that u like him...it'll be appreciated...of course it depends on the guy...if he's harbouring the same feelings as u then i'm sure he'll like it but if not then a one-on-one is a bad idea
2006-12-01 17:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by soma0089 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is cuz wat if the letter goes in the rong hands an u will be woundering if he got it or why dosent he talk or call me.....just invite him to eat or some coffe...an then ask him but dont juz blear it out like nothin...start a conversation an then when the right time comes then ask him...make sure u dont scare him when u ask him
2006-12-01 17:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by gloria e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write him a note or you can tell him in person
2006-12-01 17:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cute. You might want to make Xerox copies just in case.
2006-12-01 17:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woulden't risk it. Do you know how many people could see it? He could show it to everyone. If you trust him, tell him face to face
2006-12-01 17:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Katie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋