ok there is this guy who have liked, his ex girlfriend is my friend. i just told him i liked him. should i go out wit him? My friend says she doesnt care but i still dont want to hurt her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-01 08:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she realy dousn't like him then go out with him don't worry your friend well see u like. and well be there for u!
2006-12-01 08:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends...
If the girls is a really close friend that you have known for a super long time...then NO...its against the girl code.
You know, You aren't allowed to date ex's of best friends, even if they say its ok, unless its been more than 2 years..
But if the girl is just someone you hang out with at school, and don't talk to all that much, and really you just know her from other friends then yeah...you don't have a sisterly bond.
2006-12-01 08:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if its a very recent ex like in the past coupl of months, yea that may be harsh on her. but it sounds like ur friend wants u to be happy if she's saying she's ok with it even if she's really not. in which case go for it. and if it doenst work out with him.. u still have one hell of a friend
2006-12-01 08:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead if your friend doesn't have a problem with it, but if you can tell that she feels kinda weird about it and is acting strange towards you then i wouldn't. It's not worth losing a friend...and im sure that the guy would understand.
2006-12-01 08:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Alisono 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU CONSIDER HER LIKE A REALLY FRIEND..? IF SO DON'T DO IT THERE ARE TO MANY OTHER GUYS IN THIS WORLD THAT YOU COULD BE SPENDING TIME ON, YOU SEEM YOUNG SO IT'S NOT LIKE YOUR SEARCHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND YOU GUYS PROBABLY WON'T LAST LONG BUT YOU MIGHT LOOSE A GOOD FRIEND NO GIRLS WANTS HER FRIENDS DATING THERE EX'S IF SHE'S JUST AN ASSOCIATE GO FOR IT
2006-12-01 08:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is not really a problem if he doesnt ask you out. but if he does tell him you would like to but you'll have to let him know in a few minutes. then make SURE your girlfriend wont be hurt. if you know her well enough you should be able to tell by her expression.
good luck!
2006-12-01 08:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by skiingymnast93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him she already said that she didn't care just go I know that there's some kind of dumb rule that says that you can't date your friends ex, but let's just face it, this ain't Burger King so you can't always have it your way
2006-12-01 08:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by adgshanice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your friend and be real with her tell her that you and her are more important then you and him and you like him but you cant see losing her and see how she honestly feels if she give you her belssing than girly jump on it
2006-12-01 08:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does care and in my experience it will cause tension in the freindship no matter what she says.who's more important that guy or your friend?
2006-12-01 08:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by littleb7503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him! if your friend has told you that she doesn't care about you you won't hurt her feelings!!
2006-12-01 08:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋