Does this mean he's not interested anymore? or is he "getting it" from somewhere else? how can i find out? He says he wants to be with me. I feel embarrassed to be the one whos always initiating sex.
2006-12-01 08:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by miko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While it is unusual that the male in the relationship is not eager for sex, there are so many factors that could be involved. You have to take into account age, moral/religious factors, and personal comfort with sexual relations.
Now I could swing around wild guesses as to what is happening, but the only way to find out for sure is for you to ask him. If you are in a relationship that involves sex, it should be at a level where you can openly talk and discuss sex. Ask him why he wants to look at pictures of other women, but not be involved with you. Also, inform him how it makes you feel when you're the one always asking for sex.
Odds are he'll answer your questions and then you'll know for sure. Anything else is speculation, and you don't want to start throwing around accusations of cheating before you clear up the obvious questions first!
2006-12-01 08:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age...
If you're a teen... lol ya teen guys are going to check out nude chicks on the net..lol Don't worry about it. He might not be ready for sex. You might want to talk to him. If he doesn't respond to you and leaves you hanging waiting for an answert... find another dude. I always told my daughters they can date, but can’t have a BF until they are in 12th grade. Just because its not good to have only one BF during high school. You don’t know what you want in a guy…okays… that’s another topic..lol
If you're out of school and the guy is surfing the net looking for porn. Leave him. You're wasting your time. Find someone else. Trust me. You'll be happier with someone who would rather look at you and enjoy having sex with you then a guy looking for internet porn.
If the guy doesn’t get help he will end up a lonely man. If you stay with him and put up with it you will end up a lonely women.
Good luck.
2006-12-01 16:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join him at looking at the nude girlie pics and take part.
2006-12-01 16:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring it up for a while......see what happens and report back. Listen to the song from Prince - P...y Control
2006-12-01 16:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's having erectile dysfunction?
or perhaps he doesn't find you attractive anymore
or maybe he is going through some stress which makes him not confident to have sex with you. low self esteem?
ASK HIM!
2006-12-01 16:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by kimee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is nervous about the whole sex thing. if i were you i would wait to i get married then do the nasty stuff.
2006-12-01 16:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnot like you
2006-12-01 16:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by ricky n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like he may be cheating...
2006-12-01 16:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋