I have been daiting a guy for about 4 years and 2 months and all the sudden he got put in foster care how should i deal with that .. I cant talk to him anymore and i cant see him what should i do ?
2006-12-01 07:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw.
im so sry.
im kinda in that position right now.
it suckkks!!
<3
2006-12-01 07:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the tragic things about the foster care system in this country...that kids get sepaprated from not only their families, but their friends and schools, too. If possible, try to call his caseworker (call your local DFCS office and they will direct you). Better yet, see if your mom will call. Explain what the situation is and inquire about seeing him. The caseworkers will only allow you to see each other if it is in your boyfriend's best interest. Act mature and expect to be questioned. You may even have to take a drug screen. His shelter guardians or foster parents will also have a say. Good luck to you.
2006-12-01 08:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by adoptivemomx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't treat him any different. Find out if he wants sympathy or if he just wants to be left alone. You don't wanna seem desperate. Ask if he wants to talk about it. Im sorry but everything will get better.
2006-12-01 07:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by littlenikki57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact a lawyer, for some legal advice. As long as you are a trouble maker, there shouldn't be any problems.
2006-12-01 07:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez how old are you?? or him? you sitll in high school? sounds liek youv'e dated fo roa long time- just wait until he's 18 and then you can have a normal relationship
2006-12-01 07:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn how old is this guy 14?
2006-12-01 07:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by georgiabelle87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email, phone if that doesnt work dont be too hard on him. that has to suck on his part
2006-12-01 07:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so sad..... but unfortunately i got nothin- sorry
2006-12-01 07:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by sabbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋