Just another teen question, but , help please?

Question

okay, im in 8th grade, Jr high school. I'd like some people with experience to help me on this one. It really is confusing, and i need some help. Okay, so the other day, the 29th i was out for surgery, and will be out for a week, maybe 2. My freinds told the boy i liked i liked him and asked him if he liked me. They said this is how the convo went; freind: you! you! boy: what? freind: amy likes you. well, do you like her? boy:ahh no...... freind:do you think shes cute, or pretty? boy: ahhh i think shes cute and pretty. freind: would you go out with her? boy: well...uhh...i...dont...kn.... My friend told me he cut off on no and walked away, but she said when he was talking, he was looking around nervously and trying to avoid the convo, and than he just went stmaping off. What do you think his reaction will be when i come back, and do you think he likes me at all? If he asks me if i like him when i come back, what should i say? if you want best answer, i need a long anser with lotsofinfo

Answer 1

I think that you should employ some other more reliable means of intelligence gathering other than your pal.

Answer 2

I think the first thing you should do is to get some first hand info.
If you rely on the he-said / she-said stuff, you will NEVER get it exactly straight.

Since the social interaction of junior high and high school is about as friendly and predictable as a pirhanna pond, you should not fall into the game of counting on understanding every facial expression, voice inflection, or the company in which it was said.

Perhaps the 'friend' was asking the boy because SHE is interested in him and wants to know before she embarasses herself or compromises your friendship if she should make a move on him. Perhaps he just did not want to say something about you in front of whomever may have been standing there at the time. Maybe he walked away because he needed to get to class.

If what you reported is accurate, then yes, I would say he at least is interested in you on some level.

You should take care of yourself. Recover from your surgery. Then, when you go back to school, simply say hello to the guy. Join him in converstation. If there is interest there, you will see it in his eyes and feel in it your gut. If not, have a pleasant coversation, and enjoy the friendship.

If you are just itching to find out and can not wait two weeks, give the boy a call. Say hello and have some NORMAL excuse for talking to him. You could even use the conversation with your friend as a way to start it up.... You could call him and say that you heard about your friend asking him if he likes you, and that you are sorry if she made him uncomfortable. You wait for his response, and take it from there.

Good luck!

Answer 3

I think he will talk to you he maybe a little nervous and you might be to. What you friends did wasn't the best thing to do but i would respect them so much for helping you out.If he doesn't confront you confront him. Start a simple conversation with him like you know the basic questions like you would ask on aim.Gradually get into talking about it with him. Whatever you do don't look desperate. If he asks you if u like him tell him the truth then ask him if he says no then just try to become friends with him.(friends can sometimes be better than boyfriends). I went though the same things as you did when i was you age. Just be cool be yourself and always be truthful.

Get well soon!!
Good luck!!

Answer 4

First of all, why did your friend do that?
Second, be confident. When you go back to school act completely normal. Pretend it didn't even happen. If he tries to talk to you about it (other then asking you out) then you should just tell him that if he wants to talk about it with you; then he has to do it in private. School is definitely NOT the place to talk about something like that, because you don't know who's listening. When I was in 7th grade(2 years ago) one of my friends did the same thing. I was very lucky that my crush was nice; he only said, "So? She could like whoever she wants." If anyone asks about it, tell them that it's just between you and *insertnamehere*. It's none of their business, so you shouldn't have to prove yourself. From how he acted you can't exactly tell if he likes you or not. Depends on how he acts every day and his personality. He could've just been nervous about the situation. Or he likes you, too. Even if it's just a little bit. Maybe he didn't want to talk to your friends about it. Hope this helps!

Answer 5

It's probably that he was put on the spot. Guys don't like that. Especially since a secret in school is only secret for half a day. Not only will you know what he said, but probaby all of your friends, and his too. I think you should just go about your day when you get back. Let him approach you, and if he doesn't then you know. Don't take it personal either. Guys your age get really shy about those kinds of things. Like I said, let him come to you. If he likes you, then he'll be the first to let you know. Asking questions through friends is usually unreliable...

Answer 6

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Answer 7

first of all your friends shouldn't have told him without your permission. I think he might actually like, he might act wierd when you come back but pay no attention to it. You should smile at him once or twice. You should tell him you like him if he asks you. im only in 7th i went through the exact same thing. just relax and play cool. it will all be ok! best of luck!

Answer 8

Well it doesnt take a genious he likes you..... the fact that he backed away means its personal get off my back leave me in my haven were my world is my problem and i want no one to know me............. the i dont know means yeah sure but im scared to ask or i dont know how to start a date...probably hell be a little a happy or alott once you enter his eye sight.... and Just tell him wat u really feel ... ohh ur atractive yatayatayta and your good.

Answer 9

think he was put on the spot, when asked about you, knowing, all he said would be carried right back to you, which is not fair to him, does he like you, time will tell, but he doesn't like game playing, so handle it yourself when you get back to school, see if he welcomes you back, by just hi, glad your back, if he does, then, you'll know he cares

Answer 10

i'm in the 7th grade and from what i been through, i think he really likes u!