how would u know he loves u and he's not using u
2006-12-01 07:50:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pretend to be poorer, or say something like that. fake going bankrupt or something. if he still wants you, then you'll know.
OR you could just trust him and have faith in his love for you.
2006-12-01 07:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Neha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not unless he was only dating you after he found out how much you make or if he expects you to buy him things all the time. If he makes an effort to do for himself and/or to do for you, then he's definitely not taking advantage
2006-12-01 16:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he asks you for money most of the time and doesnt seem like he has any ambitions of his own and doesnt want to be like that forever. A way you can know is if he is proud and when you try to pay for something he totally refuses, of course you can pay for a couple of times but not all the time, because then he is just using you.
2006-12-01 15:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by JeWel in the MakE! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always we find people ore rich than we are.if the person is poorer than you but he never taslks about the importance of money and never askes you for any material things that he may need but instead he always gives you litle presents and looot of attentiontrying the best he can to make you the happyest person it means he really loves you
2006-12-01 15:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by miss_charming_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should matter if he makes less than you, but maybe if you get stuck paying for everything and he doesn't help out financially you may want to take a second look. If he suggests you go out to events and you have to pay for them, then yes I would be concerned. But if he helps out where he can and doesn't ask for money or to go out, then I think you have nothing to worry about. However if it bothers you, you either need to talk to him or move on.
2006-12-01 16:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Legs0891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.in most cases that's not true but u can run into a couple of people who does that.One u can tell is if he's constantly asking u to buy things for him and u feel stupid after u but it because he really didn't need it.Stop paying for everything and see how he feels about u after that.
2006-12-01 15:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by blaque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a job? or our you still in school and his parents have more money? If you were paying for everything I would start to think maybe he should at least pay for his. There is so much information needed to make a judgement call.
2006-12-01 15:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is affectionate to you and still tries to pay his way even though he doesn't have much money then its a good sign that he likes you for you and not your wallet. To be honest unless you have quite a lot of money I would say there is no real reason for any guy to go out with you just for money.
2006-12-01 15:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is he asking you to buy him things? If he is then be careful. There are a lot of guys that have girlfriends and they get them buy things for the guy. If he doesnt make enough money then its time for a second job.
2006-12-01 16:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by gizzmoeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend...how much money are you spending on him, and for what? Do you give him spending money or just buy things for him?
Women typically let guys spend plenty of money on them...it should be okay for the reverse to occur...
Are you paying his bills? Buying his clothes? Paying for all your dates with him? What's the situation?
2006-12-01 15:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋