I know a person who thinks she can go around partying and drops her kids off at other people's houses to babysit. once you know youre about to have a child either plan to take proper care of it or dont have one at all.
2006-12-01 07:48:53 · 17 answers · asked by so delicious 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Oh yes I do think you are right! People shouldn't go around having unprotected sex if they aren't mature enough to handle it. Don't misunderstand me in anyway. I have seen 18 year olds who are more mature than 29 year olds. So maturity definitely is not about age. I had my daughter at 18 and have seen the inside of a club one time while my children were with their Godmother for the night. Other than that I am a SAHM and love taking care of my children. I think a license to a have a child would be great! What a grand idea! Now if we could enforce it!!
2006-12-01 07:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by carmadsmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel, but look at this way....how many bad licensed drivers are there out there. A license doesn't always mean good. It just means that you know what you are supposed to do. I would bet that your friend knows how to be a good parent, she just isn't interested in that right now.
The small bright light in the situation is that at least she is getting some one to take care of the baby instead of leaving it at home by itself. (Yes that does happen).
At some point in your friend's life she is going to want to take care of her baby, but the child won't let her because she is now 20 and doesn't want to be mothered by a person that wasn't there in the first place.
2006-12-01 07:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I curiously made my sil experience "stupid" when I shared information about parenting which include her. I had an same conversations with different moms and we shared with one yet another both, and were there for an added, yet for some reason, it change into no longer alright to comprise my sil in those style of conversations because I made her experience undesirable. I considered it her problem and that i now no longer have a lot of a relationship which include her, because I truly have got here across that, like many insecure human beings, she isn't truthful, and threw me less than the bus continuously (speaking in the back of my decrease back about the imagined slights that I dealt to her). i'm hoping this isn't your problem. i'm hoping that you're not from now on interpreting something into it that isn't any longer there, because I not in any respect idea she change into stupid when I talked which include her. i change into purely enthusiastic about new mothering and change into talking to her an same way that I talked to different new moms (and change into properly received). If the daycare has all started speaking on your husband fairly of you, they could properly be choosing up on your vibe of lack of self belief, and recognize they don't seem being properly received. I truly have not in any respect felt stupid in my total existence - except for when I push fairly than pull a door open, and the large signal top in the front of my face SAYS pull. LOL I truly do no longer recognize the thanks to boost emotions of safe practices, so i'll no longer help you there, if that is your problem.
2016-10-08 01:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree. I often wonder why people have children if they don't love and respect themselves enough to take care of them. A child doesn't ask to be brought into the world and it is unfair for anyone to bring them here only to dump them on relatives.
It is sad because many people who would care for a child properly can't have them. It is tragic to see those who can treat their children with such disregard.
2006-12-01 08:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I so agree but there are right to lifers out there who think this is better than terminating an unwanted pregnancy. She obviously didn't want kids and those poor kids now have to suffer her abandonment. It's just so sad.
2006-12-01 08:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish the same thing. There are alot of people that would have their license revoked, some permanently. We would give them a PUD license instead. Parenting Usage Denied??? I wish I could think of better words to fit pud.
2006-12-01 08:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by MG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea because some parents don't know how to take care of there kids.
2006-12-01 08:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by PINK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bring up such a valid point, but don't let the enablers off of the hook so easily. Someone needs to help this person realize their responsibilities.
2006-12-01 08:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES YES YES!!!!
Didn't you ever see - on the bottom of every birth certificate is printed: DO NOT REPRODUCE. Some people should take the advice.
2006-12-01 08:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thank you! I firmly believe that there are a great number of people who shouldn't be breeding...and they're the ones who continue to do so.
2006-12-01 07:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by mreheather6 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋