everyone thinks that he is gay?
Typical society brainwashing.
2006-12-01 07:48:02 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that all human begins see the beauty in others some are afraid to admit it. Especially, men they will say "I am not gay" I don't know if another man is handsome. However, all people have eyes that work can see, and it is ok to see the beauty in others. I don't find it strange. However, it is society and its crazy rules towards somethings. God bless****
2006-12-01 07:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. But in my opinion If a man says another man is handsome it doesn't mean he's gay, he just says his opinion about his look. This is just the same thing about if you're a man you should not cry because if you do, they will think that you're not a real man, that's pathetic.
Being gay is not really about the way you act or say. Some people act like a man but the truth is that he is gay, some also act like girlish but they're not gay.
2006-12-01 08:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, society seems to think anything women do is OK when it comes to a sexual nature, but not men?? I personally love it when men show their true feelings, and aren't to macho to do so! Saying some one is handsome or beautiful has nothing to do with your sexuality, it just meens that you are human and can state the fact that someone ,be it man or woman, is attractive.
2006-12-01 07:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, that is how our society is set. It is set up where women can express their emotions more, and if men do the same thing, they are looked down upon as being 'unmanly'. If I was a guy, I would say "I can see how the ladies think he is handsome/sexy", or "Yeah, I suppose he's pretty good-looking." And than make a joke or something about it. If you just say straight up that a guy is handsome, than other guys will feel uncomfortable because they weren't raised that way.
2006-12-01 07:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's b/c it's so weird to hear another man checking out another man. I mean whenever two women calls each other sexy or beautiful, it turns other men on. But if two men does it, it just sounds wrong.
But that's just like what you said: "Typical society brainwashing"
2006-12-01 07:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said brainwashing and the fact that a lot of people are drilling wrongs about gays in peoples heads. That's like in the USA live with it or move to an other country. Best of Luck!!
2006-12-01 07:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunately in this country EVERYTHING is gay. I personally think it's alright for a man to say another man is handsome. I guess u need to find people to hang with who are ok with. I'm Italian so it's normal to me but this country is sometimes ignorant.
2006-12-01 07:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkin butt!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong witht that if a guy says it once every now and then but if he always comments that another guy is hot or cute then you should worry the same way with a female always commenting on another female. i dont understand the whole concept that women can be gay and its ok its not right women are made for men and vice versa that is a human created way of thinking that its ok for anybody to be with someone of the same sex its nasty and a sin
2006-12-01 08:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what you want to say to him and blame the society for making it such a big deal! If you are uncomfortable saying handsome just try other words that you think both of yall will be more comfortable!
2013-09-30 10:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by RawrzZie972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe because poeple are use to woman saying that and is kind of rear for a man to say that.(I thinkkkkkkk..... I'm not sure)But if you think some guy is handsome just say it OK.
2006-12-01 07:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♠Ada Wong♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋