So why isnt when a girl has a crush on guy and the girl trys to fo everything she can to get him to notice her and the guy either plays hard to get or just acts like she isnt alive, but when the girl gives up on her hope of ever having a chance with him, she starts to act like hes not alive and later the guy is the one trying to get at the girl who was crazy over him? He does anything he can to get her attention..?
I just really want to know why are guys like that and vise-versa?
2006-12-01 07:47:28 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because that is nature. It's called chase and grab. You chase after someone and you that someone doesn't pay you any mind because they want to know if it's them you want or just what you can do for them. Now, when you give up, they in turn start chasing you because they know that when you give up, you really want them for who they are and not for what they can do for you.
2006-12-01 07:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's human nature to want something you can't have. I think a relationship is something that just happens when each are content with each other and they end up together. But, I have found that no relationship is totally equal. There is always one or the other willing to do more, sacrifice more, and overlook more than the other. It's just seems that way to me. But, I'm not an expert on relationships, it's just my observation.
2006-12-01 15:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their scared to make the move. Once they realize that they may be losing that person they try to get the attention back.
2006-12-01 15:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by superlott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and the same thing has been happening to me for 6 months..everytime i get enthusiastic and do nice things for her..i get ignored..everytime i say to myself screw all this and dont call her for a few days she gets back to me..im 30 and im no closer to knowing women than i was at 15.
2006-12-01 16:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by incred_hunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want what we can't have. Just like I want you right now.
2006-12-01 15:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jumbug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just remember one thing and never forget this, guys are very very dumb. i should know i am guy
2006-12-01 15:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋