Girls always complain that finding a nice guy is impossible but when there is one right in front of them they seem to not see it, and bypass him for the jerk jock?
2006-12-01 07:44:31 · 25 answers · asked by zman1687 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause they are blind
:> peace
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2006-12-04 16:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what women say, it's what they do that matters.
Same principle applies to nice guys who of course always finish last as they do nothing.
You can't expect a company to just randomly hire you if you haven't applied for a job. So I dunno why nice guys think women will come around and just suddenly appreciate them for their worth.
Jocks/Jerks/Creeps get women because they put the work in, women want to be pursued, chased.
So really if you had to choose between someone who may...or may not ask you out and someone who is saying let's go now, what would you pick?
Still women need to have more self-respect, more courage and more patience (and more often better taste) to wait for something special.
Women are in absolutely no position to complain or be upset if they hook up with Mr. Right Now and get hurt or damaged instead of being strong enough to wait for Mr. Right.
2006-12-01 15:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the thing is that they aren't just saying they can't find a nice guy but they are also saying they can't find a nice guy that they want to be with. That just the touch of their hand sends sparks to their heart. Don't complain because there is probably a girl that likes you that hears you complain because the girl you like doesnt like you and they probably want to scream "Look at me, Love me. I won't hurt you" but you are too busy looking at a girl who just doesn't have feelings for you. We can't help who we do and do not have feelings for. One day you will find someone who has feelings for you and you will return them. Until then don't complain that nice guys finish last because they don't! Some of them are just too busy going after the wrong person to see the right person is right there beside them.
2006-12-01 15:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by granolaperson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you cant help who you fall for, and you just have to hope that you fall for the nice guy. Sometimes its hard to see "the nice" guy when your caught up falling over someone else. The saying goes, " you dont see what you have until its gone" And it goes both ways, guys never go for the girl that will treat them good. They always go for the girl that will end up cheating on them and leaving them for the jerk jock!!!
2006-12-01 15:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe I am doing this, but I am a guy, and I disagree with what you are saying! The problem is that nice guys DO NOT show girls that they like them. Girls and guys speak different languages. The problem is not your niceness or meanness! The problem is are you speaking guyese. Girls DO NOT understand guyese. If instead, you speak girlese (flirting with them, having fun with them, making fun of them playfully, getting close to them), you will get their attention. I used to be the nice guy that one girl in four years noticed. Now, I am the nice guy that almost EVERY girl notices. All I did was learn to flirt and become a man. Too often, nice guys clam up around a girl they'd like to date. They stutter and get nervous and look like complete idiots. Put yourself in their shoes! Would you date yourself???
I am not here to rap on you though. I am here to help. If you want to be noticed, you must learn to flirt. Convey in girlese, "HEY, I'M AVAILABLE GIRLS!!!" Before long, they will be all over you. I actually have them chasing me because I am the nice guy that conveys that image. I do what I want when I want, and I know how to have fun with girls. Make them comfortable with you and attract them. You can learn this from a few good downloads online. If you want to know more, look around! There are some good dating books for guys.
Good luck!
2006-12-01 16:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously when I complain, there LITERALLY isn't one LOL. I'm such a girly girl, don't have much guy friends.. but I definitely know when i meet a nice one or not. at one point i liked a nice guy and he always complained about girls that he liked or went out with.. and not to toot my horn but, most ppl call me nice and I was hoping he would EVER wake up and possibly see me as more than friends.. so yeah just a thought =P lol
2006-12-01 15:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes nice guys can be somewhat of a push over. Its one thing to be nice and give your woman the world but a woman needs to feel like she can be safe and u can protect her and if she can walk over u 9 times out of 10 she feels like everyone else will also.It could be that she wants a man to take control and tell her no or put her in her place every now and then if u always give in then its no fun
2006-12-01 15:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys seem nice at first but then turn out to be a$$holes. I've dated one very nice guy in my life and I screwed it up at the end. He obviously still has feelings for me but he is to obsessed with his last ex even though he was unhappy with her alot. Guess it can go both ways hey?
2006-12-01 16:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me as a women ill never be satisfied, theres always somehting to complain about. I think cause when your lil u see your relationships as being perfect like a fairy tale,but in reality it's not. So deal with it every girl has there bad habits just as well as guys.
2006-12-01 15:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by jdn85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, women when they dated jerk and they assume all of them are the same. What they don't see is when they talkin to a nice guys, is they realize that is just their friend.
2006-12-01 15:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c finding a nice guy is impossible trust me! and sometimes they may not see it b/c they dont know that they're truly a nice guy and you would have to show them that....plus most not all but most jocks are jerks....
2006-12-01 15:47:56 · answer #11 · answered by iamloved387 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋