and I am married! Not that I would ever cheat on my husband but I cant quit fantasizing about this guy. He is a paratrooper in the Military and rock hard - so it is easy to do. How do I make myself quit...I feel like the spawn of Satan! Afterall my husband is the teacher!
2006-12-01 07:43:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The bible study is at MY HOUSE...I have to be there!
2006-12-01 07:46:40 · update #1
Why not go for it since you can ask for forgiveness afterward and still go to heaven the next day.
2006-12-01 07:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have to wonder if anyone else finds it ironic that you're "Hot2Trot", your avatar is from Victoria's Secret and you're in bible study class. Which of of these three doesn't belong in the group. My gut instinct is that you're living a lie and looking for a way out, but hooking up with some mimbo isn't the answer.
2006-12-01 07:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by I have ideas... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much as your bible study will tell you that it is wrong - it is not wrong. You are a normal red blooded female reacting to exactly what you are supposed to react to. NOW - if you act upon it - then you may consider yourself and Satan at least on speaking terms. What you do after that dictates how good of speaking terms you will be on. But do not beat yourself up for being normal. As much as you will not like to hear it - the bible is not normal or even real. Good luck and have a delightful fantasy.
2006-12-01 07:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to make your relationship stronger. That way, you will feel more connected with your husband. Be happy with what you have. be humble. remember what the bible says, thoso who are jealous of other guys, will not inherit the kingdom of good. its also says that looking is a way of committing adultery. every time u think about him, think about your husband, what he would feel if he knew you were doing that. fantasize about your husband instead. im sure you dont want to hurt him.
good luck
2006-12-01 08:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by kclr16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah seems that bible study is doing you real good. Nice avatar, is this a cult you belong to where your god is an alien???? Because last time I checked lust and nudity was frowned upon from God, wonder if your husband is a phony too, telling people to pray and be right, yet sinning.
2006-12-01 07:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of Four 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with fantasy?
A little fantasy is a good thing.
Does it really matter who get's you hot so long as the one that is reaping the benifits of it is your husband?
Don't guilt yourself into having a problem where there isn't one! Fantasy is just that fantasy! Keep it in that realm and all shall be fine.
2006-12-01 07:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As an American colleague of my aquaintence once said "Looking at a cookie doesn't count for calories". We all have our little secrets and fantasies. Just make sure they stay that. I'm sure your husband has the hots for somebody as well, so it does no harm.
2006-12-01 07:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jesus said if you look after a woman with lust you have committed adultery with her already in your heart, same goes for this man. Ask for God's forgiveness and ask him to take these feelings from you. If you sincerely want to stop he will help you.
2006-12-01 07:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already sinned and cheated on your husband jsut by having those thoughts. Tell your husband, he will decide how you should be punished.
2006-12-01 08:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it. I find that when I'm attracted to another girl, talking to my wife about it helps me to feel closer to my wife and then slowly my fondness for the other girl fades.
2006-12-01 08:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sifu Shaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋