It's my verginity that I want to give up?
I heard guys dont like when girls are virgins
So I'm hoping that I'm doing tte right thing.
Is it true that when you first start it will hurt ?
2006-12-01 07:41:21 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy hola skirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok Honey, you were given some very very good advice on this subject 4 days ago, & you voted it as best answer. So what happened between then & now?
If you aren't sure, then you aren't ready. Let me tell you. ALL GUYS are ready to take your virginity. But the ones who aren't worthy of your "Gift" (if you will) are the ones who will pressure you rather that allow you the time to decide if this is really what you want to do.
What you heard are "Guys don't like girls who are Virgins" Well have you heard that "Guys don't MARRY girls who are NOT virgins"? Hows that for a double standard?
Yup, there are two kinds of girls. The ones that guys will play with, & the ones that guys will get serious with. Which one do you want to be?
If you want my advice, then stay a virgin until you find a guy you are absolutely sure wants to be serious with you.
Whatever you do, don't do ANYTHING else until you have learned all there is to know about SAFE SEX, pregnancy, & birth control. At your age you can get pregnant so easily, you won't believe it, but you had better because it's true, I know.
Please Be Safe!
2006-12-01 08:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT doing the right thing.
You should save yourself for marriage and see if the guy really truly DOES love you.
Bascally, this is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 1/2 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2006-12-01 15:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a really stupid idea to give up your virginity just becuz ur afraid guys won't like u becuz ur a virgin. u should respect yourself more than that. if they don't like u becuz ur a virgin means that they're just after the sex. not becuz they like u for who u are.
it shouldn't matter whether ur a virgin or not because they are trying to get to know the person that you are. not because of your body or whether he'll get sex from u.
2006-12-01 15:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you girl! You sound awfully young to be thinking of this!
2006-12-01 15:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋